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When did becoming friends with someone, involve every possible thing that does not relate directly to you or the other person? Now being friends with someone means you hafta be friends with certain other people, or that you can't be friends with certain people? What the fuck is that? Why can't two people just be friends straight up? And when you are friends, how do you know that person isn't being fake with you? There are so many false friendships out there that it's almost impossible to figure out who your real friends are. I think that the emo part of me that refuses to trust anything is fueling this entry. I'm just really confused on what the requirements of being a friend are. Things have changed since highschool. I've made a lot of new friends in college, but for some reason, someone or the other always has a problem with that. Making new friends and keeping them has turned into some sort of competition.
Trust has also become a huge factor in finding your friends. People think that other people are untrustworthy because on occasion things are said that aren't meant, or weren't meant to be said. Personally everybody says shit, and some secrets were meant to be told. Not a big deal, forgive and forget and keep moving on. Don't let these small mistakes hinder your friendship with someone, cuz you could be missing out on something.
So what's going on with my life? In college, struggling, and doing the best that i can. Apartment life is a lot of fun, and sophomore year is a lot harder than freshman year! It's only going to get harder!! Wouldn't trade it for the world though. Ahh welcome back Emo LJ.
Trust has also become a huge factor in finding your friends. People think that other people are untrustworthy because on occasion things are said that aren't meant, or weren't meant to be said. Personally everybody says shit, and some secrets were meant to be told. Not a big deal, forgive and forget and keep moving on. Don't let these small mistakes hinder your friendship with someone, cuz you could be missing out on something.
So what's going on with my life? In college, struggling, and doing the best that i can. Apartment life is a lot of fun, and sophomore year is a lot harder than freshman year! It's only going to get harder!! Wouldn't trade it for the world though. Ahh welcome back Emo LJ.