Women aren't just sex objects.
I think one of the most disappointing things to me that men usually think with their bottom part while meeting women. I just refuse to accept that there is no friendship between men and women. You know why? Because I can be a friend. I can be man's support and a partner. I can do sports, art events, walks, shopping, food... Aaaanything friends do!!! I don't care about my friend's age, status, profession, skin color, sex, race etc. Friends are friends. That's what our life is about!
I think it's important to be generous and kind, supportive, fun and helpful to friends.
But unfortunately most men don't think like that in regards women. If they like you, they will act like such an amazing full package human beings, they will share so many personal moments and thoughts with you until... you decide to tell them that there is nothing coming after that, that we are just friends. And then... of course, they vanish from your life. Like you are just a live vagina, like there is nothing more important about you than that. Their thoughts :"I spend so much money and time on you and you haven't rewarded me for that anyhow??!!! So bye. Nice to meeting you". And I'm usually thinking: how and when I ever made you feel that there is something coming, huh? I wish men could understand if woman sharing time with them and eating dinner or watching a movie that they happened to pay for, she isn't necessarily owe them a damn thing for that!
I know there is psychology involved and this and that, but come one, guys! Life is not only about sex. Women can be amazing friends. And yes, we would pay for your dinners and buy you things too, yes. Just to make you feel good and special as a FRIEND.
I truly wish men could take this as an advice. I would be feeling really happy and somewhat relieved if it would change men's way of thinking. So dear men, precious and amazing human beings- life isn't about business, it's isn't about "you give me, then I give you". I wish men to understand that they will never loose by treat any women right, they will never loose by being generous. That by stopping talking to women after not getting sex, they really show themselves as a less of a men. Sorry, but really just like a shitty, empty, fake, lying and useless person.
I don't care what's our world turning into nowadays. I have a right to raise MY voice for you, and I want you to focus on LOVE, KINDNESS, GENEROUSITY, FRIENDLINESS, SUPPORT, COMPASSION AND LOYALTY. With no expectations.
Cuz you will never know how life can benefit you in the future by accepting women as friends too, not just as an organ.
Thanks.