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Hey so it's been a long time...happy birthday jinra!
I popped out the baby, which is now one month old and quite cute when he's not being a shit
However it feels like my marriage is in crisis...was I a sucker to think that when you get married all the hearbreak ends? It feels like I was...the reason I'm whinging like a bitch is because he's not fair to me...he's allowed to piss off and leave me to look after the baby and just not come home for however many nights but I came out this afternoon (and surprise, nobody's out) and I've been out for a total of...hmm 1 hour and he rings me up and demands I come back because he can't be fucked looking after the baby...
His reason for pissing off all the time (not telling me where he's gone or what he's doing or when he'll be back) is that he needs some time to himself....WTF do i not need time to myself as well?
Tell me guys, is this fair or what? Or have I been subjected to yet another male ideology of "wife stay home look after baby, guy go out and have fun". I've HAD it............seriously...help!
I popped out the baby, which is now one month old and quite cute when he's not being a shit
However it feels like my marriage is in crisis...was I a sucker to think that when you get married all the hearbreak ends? It feels like I was...the reason I'm whinging like a bitch is because he's not fair to me...he's allowed to piss off and leave me to look after the baby and just not come home for however many nights but I came out this afternoon (and surprise, nobody's out) and I've been out for a total of...hmm 1 hour and he rings me up and demands I come back because he can't be fucked looking after the baby...
His reason for pissing off all the time (not telling me where he's gone or what he's doing or when he'll be back) is that he needs some time to himself....WTF do i not need time to myself as well?
Tell me guys, is this fair or what? Or have I been subjected to yet another male ideology of "wife stay home look after baby, guy go out and have fun". I've HAD it............seriously...help!