BUCKET LIST of Haircut Fantasies
2011 will probably be the last year that I have my long hair, and that I will be shaved completely bald by the end of the year.
There are two reasons behind this decision:
Unlike July of 2007, or the disaster of a scenario that almost took place in late 2010, this CAN'T be a one time, "Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am" one time haircut and head shave scenario that takes place in the kitchen or in our basement. It needs to be a series of haircuts and shavings, that take place over time, and allow for multiple fantasies and scenarios to be acted upon and documented for future recall.
I would hope that the first haircut/shave would take place on a grand scale, and could possibly address some long unfulfilled fantasies that I have held onto for most of my adult life, yet never shared with any woman that I have ever been intimate with. Most of these fantasies, have only grown within my mind since first meeting and falling in love with my wife, and have therefore been as a direct result of desires I have had, and still have, for her.
Desires to have the woman I love take charge, and determine where and when my haircuts and lathered shaves will take place. Being romanced, seduced, and surprised with a sexy erotic encounter with my sexy smoking barberette. Being wined, dined, and drawn back to her lair for my ultimate shearing.
The following would help transition me into being ready for her to quit smoking, if that's what she wants to do. She will have the benefit of a prescription pill to help her ease her withdrawal symptoms and desires. I will have no such pill. Instead, I will have the memories, photos, and video of the following items/conditions:
I'm hoping that at least 33% of this bucket list could be shared with my sweet Bubbie Bee, and that she would take my hair off as soon as she plans the where (somewhere nice and romantic) and when.
Karen,
When you get around to seeing this post, please feel free to ask me about it and discuss these things with me. Nothing would make me happier, and each and every one of these things on this list would make it exponentially easier for me to GLADLY (EAGERLY) help you on your journey to quit smoking. It's time, and even you know it.
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE watching you smoke! It is my single most intense fetish and turn on, and keeps me sane when I am so desperately desiring sexual intimacy with you and I know you don't want that same thing back with me. I masturbate at night thinking of you lighting up a cigarette, blowing the smoke into the air or into my face, and then kissing me with that sexy smoky taste on your lips and tongue. There is NO WAY on earth that you could ever comprehend how powerful that sensation and imagery is over me...
BUT!!!!! BIG BIG BUT! I need you to be by my side and grow old with me. I need for
the two of us to be healthy and be around for our children. And that means that we both make sacrifices and significant changes in both of our lives. And one of the biggest, is that you need to PLEASE quit smoking.
I beg, and plead (I'll do anything. Give you anything. Promise you anything in the world. Clean house, cook meals, do laundry, and YES... even cut off all of the long hair I have been growing for the past 3 plus years...) with you. Help me fulfill as many of these "BUCKET LIST" items as you can bear to share with me.
Lets start them soon, so that by late Summer, early Fall, or at the latest when the Holidays arrive, I'm prepared and ready to help you quit smoking without feeling that I've left desires that I want to share with you unfulfilled. I'll have no regrets. No hurt or ill feelings. And no nagging shadows at the back of my mind that will cause me to sabotage your efforts, or cause you to feel guilt or hesitation in not smoking for me.
I'm going to start by planning a really wonderful night out for our anniversary. I want it to be a really special evening for you. Primarily to thank you for showing me how much you really do love and care for me. For causing me to regain my faith in our love and marriage.
If you would like to use that evening, as an opportunity to make the move to begin this course of events, please let me know either on or before that evening. Otherwise, I will know that you were simply enjoying that night out, and will wait for you to decide when is the time to begin these activities...
I'm honestly looking forward to having you cut off all of my hair. There is NO NEED to ASK ME if (or when) I want you to do it. When you decide the time is right, PLEASE (PLEASE, PLEASE) just take control and DO IT!
If you need ideas, here are a few:
Sure, you'll have to have tons more sex than what you have been accustomed to, but the payoff will be worth it in the end. And, who knows, maybe this extended time of intimacy between us might rekindle some long forgotten desires and fire in both of us. Maybe we will learn and discover other "fetishes" to share with one another....
I await your response. Love Chiputle.
There are two reasons behind this decision:
- I want to give Karen the gift of my hair, because I hope it will make her happy. and
- She says she wants to quit smoking. She wanted to do it at the end of last year, and I'm going to help her do it this year.
Unlike July of 2007, or the disaster of a scenario that almost took place in late 2010, this CAN'T be a one time, "Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am" one time haircut and head shave scenario that takes place in the kitchen or in our basement. It needs to be a series of haircuts and shavings, that take place over time, and allow for multiple fantasies and scenarios to be acted upon and documented for future recall.
I would hope that the first haircut/shave would take place on a grand scale, and could possibly address some long unfulfilled fantasies that I have held onto for most of my adult life, yet never shared with any woman that I have ever been intimate with. Most of these fantasies, have only grown within my mind since first meeting and falling in love with my wife, and have therefore been as a direct result of desires I have had, and still have, for her.
Desires to have the woman I love take charge, and determine where and when my haircuts and lathered shaves will take place. Being romanced, seduced, and surprised with a sexy erotic encounter with my sexy smoking barberette. Being wined, dined, and drawn back to her lair for my ultimate shearing.
The following would help transition me into being ready for her to quit smoking, if that's what she wants to do. She will have the benefit of a prescription pill to help her ease her withdrawal symptoms and desires. I will have no such pill. Instead, I will have the memories, photos, and video of the following items/conditions:
- First, I need to see that our sex life, and romantic life, is getting back on track. I'm not yet sure how to accomplish that feat, but maybe cutting my hair off for her will be the starting point we need to get there. We have come a LONG way in our relationship over the past few months. She has been making great efforts to tell me that she really does love me, and that our marriage means as much to her as it does to me. I just wish she would make the effort to show me. (and not just sexually)
- I want to buy a latex rubber dress for her to wear while cutting my hair off, and shaving me smooth. Latex rubber is my pinnacle in fetish fashion, and I've longed to see my wife in latex rubber for over a decade now. Being shaved while she wears it will be monumental.
- I want to get highlights in my hair, and be pampered in a salon. DONE
- I want to grow my hair out for a few weeks before Easter, and then I want my wife to smoke while she gives me a clipper ride while sitting in my lap, then lathers my head for a super smooth razor shave. After I am completely bald, I want to have my head painted, and decorated, like a highly detailed and artistic Easter Egg. (I have had this unfulfilled fantasy since the early 1980's, and have never had anyone share it with me)
- I want to take photo shoots and short videos of my wife smoking cigarettes (Marlboro Light 100's, and Virginia Slims 120's) in each and every fetish fashion outfit that I have ever bought her (most of which she has never even bothered to put on after I bought them); as well as some of her sexy satin blouse tops that have a very sexy "professional woman" look to them. This alone will take several weeks to accomplish, as we will need time alone, without the kids. These photo shoots can't just be on the fly...: I want her hair and makeup done for each one, and I would like for some of them to be in locations other than here at home. Like a nice fancy hotel room. I want enough new smoking photos and short video clips to fill up a hard drive, so that my hard drive stays hard for years to come.
I've been thinking of getting us a room at the Ameristar Casino. I just have to figure out where to get $200 for a room on a SAT night.
- I'd LOVE to have my wife give me a slow sensual crew cut while smoking a long VS120 cigarette. And at some point in time, at least attempt to give me a high-n-tight, before shaving my head completely bald.
- At Least Just one time... I would LOVE to receive the blowjob that she promised me last December. At least try! And if she can't, then she can sit there while smoking her cigarette, occasionally lick the length of my shaft or along the sensitive area between my balls and thigh, and give me a hand job. (It's been so long, I've forgotten what blowjobs feel like)
- I want her to smoke a cigarette while masturbating me with the new fleshlight she bought me for my birthday.
- I wish she would do some video stories for me. She could take the video camera, or the digital camera, and set it up on a tripod or across the table, and tell me an erotic story about making love to me or about cutting my hair off, all while smoking a cigarette. She doesn't have to talk in all of them, or even for the full length of each. Just film herself from light up till she puts the cigarette out.
I could play these back for years to come. The best ones would be any that she would film herself, and surprise me with later when I found them on the camera.
- I wish she would shear me, and shave my head somewhere romantic and different than just in our basement or living room.
The website for the Ameristar Hotel shows that they have these gigantic marble bathrooms, with large mirrors and vanities. We could set one up as a makeshift barbershop, and the video camera could catch my shaving from two angles by using the mirror to see both front and back at the same time. We could spend the rest of the night making love while she smokes.
- I want to shave her pussy bare (I still don't understand why she stopped shaving, other than the fact that she knows I am turned off by hairy pussy), and perform oral sex on her while she wraps her sexy thighs around my shaven head and sits back to smoke a cigarette. If I could get that on video, to watch back later, I think I'd mess myself thinking about it.
- I would love to be able to perform oral sex on her while she slowly snips bits of my long hair from my head with my good hair cutting scissors. I often fantasize about a scenario where I have just come out of a shower, to find my wife dressed in a sexy blouse top, and possibly some sort of short skirt, and she commands me to come and put my face down between her legs to pleasure me with her tongue, as she begins to snip away my long wet hair. (Being wet not only keeps it from getting all over the place, but also makes a very sexy sound when it's being cut)
- I want her to take me shopping, and surprise me with the fact that she will be shaving my head later that night by the items that we are buying on that shopping trip. I'd love it if she would buy a new set of hair clippers to use on me, that have never been used by any another woman on my head or anyone's head.
- I'd love to have her play with my hair, and play hair salon with me for an afternoon, by either bleaching my hair out blonde, or coloring it some starkly different color, before cutting it all off. She could play hairdresser, and then be all like, "I'm sorry sir, your hair is just too messed up to salvage at this point. We only have one option left, and that's to shave your head bald."
- Once my long hair has been snipped off (or buzzed into a crew cut by my smoking barberette), I'd love to have her march me into a hair salon for a forced shearing; whether that be a short man's haircut, or a clipper ride high-n-tight.
- (LONG SHOT - but doesn't hurt to ask) I've always wanted to have a bald woman shave me bald. (Don't think I'll get to act this one out, unless I can convince her to sign me up for St. Baldrick's, and arrange for a female "shavee" to shave me in front of her... before being whisked away in the car to another location for lathering and shaving... and lots of sex).
- After I've been bald for a few weeks, and she has kept me shaved ultra smooth several times a week, I'd love for her to make me grow it out for a full month... an agonizingly long time, when your hair is that short and you're wanting to shave it every other day... and then have her march me into a barber shop where I have to climb up in a big leather barber's chair to have a lady barber shave my head with a straight razor. (Not sure if it still holds true, but Country Hill Barbershop used to have one side of their waiting chairs sitting next to the tall ashtrays so that customers could smoke inside the barber shop. I've fantasized for nearly two decades about sitting in one of those barber chairs, having my head shaved razor smooth, while a woman sits back and watches me lose my hair while smoking a cigarette.)
- One thing that would make these encounters extra special, would be for her to give me regular haircuts and head shavings without me having to always beg for them every week, and without making me have to set up all of the time.
Just once, or twice, I'd love to have her call me upstairs (or where ever she wants me to be) after the kids were in bed(or at their grandma's house), to find her standing at the kitchen table with a freshly lit cigarette in her hand, and everything she needs to shave my head laid out on the table and ready to go.
- One fantasy I've long entertained in my mind... I'd love to come back home from dropping the kids off at one of the grandma's houses for the evening, expecting to pick her up for a date night, and find her inside the house prepared and waiting to give me a surprise haircut and shaving before we leave the house for the evening. Already dressed to the nines. Hair and makeup done. Sexy outfit (vinyl, rubber, leather, or a sexy skirt and blouse that she could wear out afterwards) already on, and a chair waiting in the middle of the room, or our clean kitchen, for me to take a seat and get shaved.
- She doesn't have to do her hair up nice and wear makeup, every time that she gives me a trim or shave during the week; but I'd really appreciate it if she'd at least wear lipstick so that I can see the print on the filter tip of her cigarette, and taste the lipstick on her smoky breath as she kisses me in between passes of the clippers or razor.
I'm hoping that at least 33% of this bucket list could be shared with my sweet Bubbie Bee, and that she would take my hair off as soon as she plans the where (somewhere nice and romantic) and when.
Karen,
When you get around to seeing this post, please feel free to ask me about it and discuss these things with me. Nothing would make me happier, and each and every one of these things on this list would make it exponentially easier for me to GLADLY (EAGERLY) help you on your journey to quit smoking. It's time, and even you know it.
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE watching you smoke! It is my single most intense fetish and turn on, and keeps me sane when I am so desperately desiring sexual intimacy with you and I know you don't want that same thing back with me. I masturbate at night thinking of you lighting up a cigarette, blowing the smoke into the air or into my face, and then kissing me with that sexy smoky taste on your lips and tongue. There is NO WAY on earth that you could ever comprehend how powerful that sensation and imagery is over me...
BUT!!!!! BIG BIG BUT! I need you to be by my side and grow old with me. I need for
the two of us to be healthy and be around for our children. And that means that we both make sacrifices and significant changes in both of our lives. And one of the biggest, is that you need to PLEASE quit smoking.
I beg, and plead (I'll do anything. Give you anything. Promise you anything in the world. Clean house, cook meals, do laundry, and YES... even cut off all of the long hair I have been growing for the past 3 plus years...) with you. Help me fulfill as many of these "BUCKET LIST" items as you can bear to share with me.
Lets start them soon, so that by late Summer, early Fall, or at the latest when the Holidays arrive, I'm prepared and ready to help you quit smoking without feeling that I've left desires that I want to share with you unfulfilled. I'll have no regrets. No hurt or ill feelings. And no nagging shadows at the back of my mind that will cause me to sabotage your efforts, or cause you to feel guilt or hesitation in not smoking for me.
I'm going to start by planning a really wonderful night out for our anniversary. I want it to be a really special evening for you. Primarily to thank you for showing me how much you really do love and care for me. For causing me to regain my faith in our love and marriage.
If you would like to use that evening, as an opportunity to make the move to begin this course of events, please let me know either on or before that evening. Otherwise, I will know that you were simply enjoying that night out, and will wait for you to decide when is the time to begin these activities...
I'm honestly looking forward to having you cut off all of my hair. There is NO NEED to ASK ME if (or when) I want you to do it. When you decide the time is right, PLEASE (PLEASE, PLEASE) just take control and DO IT!
If you need ideas, here are a few:
- Snip off a long lock while we are having sex.
- Keep the clippers plugged in by your night stand (heck, after this evening, I'll make a point to make sure they are plugged into an extension cord on my side of the bed).
- Send the kids to your mom's house, and then come down stairs to my man cave, stand before me with a devious grin on your face, light a cigarette, and then start snipping all of my hair off...
- Ambush me in the shower. Come in the shower with me, and while we are both wet and naked, start scissoring my wet hair off.
- Secretly sign me up for St. Baldrick's, and then collect pledge donations so I can't back out and say no.
- Bribe me: Pull into Super Cut's parking lot, and offer to get your hair cut into a long bob, or offer to give me a blow job (for real this time) when we get home, or offer to let me shave your sissy and go down on you when we get home, etc... If I'll let you march me inside for a short haircut of your picking.
Sure, you'll have to have tons more sex than what you have been accustomed to, but the payoff will be worth it in the end. And, who knows, maybe this extended time of intimacy between us might rekindle some long forgotten desires and fire in both of us. Maybe we will learn and discover other "fetishes" to share with one another....
I await your response. Love Chiputle.