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how old are you going to be when you accept this? you have to take the bad with the good, the shitty with the awesome, the crash with the high, and the worst with the best. some days are going to suck, you're going to feel like shit and work's gonna kick your ass. some days you'll feel unstoppable. the bad is required to allow the good to exist. without the bad there is no good. there's no cheating, it's just a question of in what form do you take it. you can live off other people's backs your entire life, your friends, your parents, whatever, with your looks or your persuasion, but you're going to know down in your mind that nothing you have you made for yourself. there is no easy way out. weather you make it with physical labor or with mental labor, all the money and fame in the world means nothing unless nobody but yourself is responsible for obtaining it. you may be able to change someone's attitude from angry and confrontational to meek and amicable with a simple raise of the shoulders and a look of disapproval, but there's always a bigger guy than you out there somewhere. Accept that, and "thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever and ever."