I sent your package out priority mail on Wednesday and insured it. You should have it today or tomorrow. I didn't do the dc, I forgot to add that on, sorry. You sent all this stuff to my house, Lesly. The first time I was okay with it, but the stuff kept just kept coming. You didn't seem to be concerned with asking me if this was okay. However, I should have been a little more assertive with you, I own that. Now I have all this responsibility to send packages here and there and it isn't fair to me. I am busy like all day. I don't even have time to eat lunch. I'm off work after the post office closes. I have school and work and my family and those are my priorities. I've also been ill, something you probably didn't know. I don't screw people over, you should know that by now. I feel like some boundaries were violated here, and that is really unfortunate. I'm sorry that you've had to wait to get this stuff...but you are the one that sent these things to my house with out my concent. So now, you'll have to deal with my schedule. I'm not a courier or a clearing house. Honesty, I can't deal with anymore of this added stress. I'm sending Emmas package to you and then you can take care of it. The 7 bucks it would cost to send it to you is worth me not having to deal with the responsibility of sending this poor woman her package. Granted, she's waited long enough. So, tomorrow or monday, I'm going to the post office and sending you Emma's package, which is what I should have done in the first place. For whatever reason, please don't send things to my house anymore...I mean you haven't lately and that's cool, but in the future, it's just an added stressor that I can do without. Thanks.
i did ask you if stuff was okay...the only thing that i have to say about this situation is if you could have told me and emma a long time ago, this wouldn't have happened. and secondly, i know you're a busy woman, but days add up to weeks and months. after what has happened with lee and the such, i don't put it past anyone. as for me sending stuff to your house, it hasn't happened in a LONG while now. like i said, if you would have said it a LONG TIME AGO, i wouldn't have minded, and it wouldn't have gotten to this point.
Re: my 2 cents.die_tomateJuly 9 2005, 14:48:53 UTC
Yeah, except you asked if it was okay like only the first time AFTER you already sent the stuff to my house. Do you realize the volume of parcels that came to my house? It was insane, Lesly. I mean, you were compulsively buying stuff and sending it to MY house. God, I should have said something. And I'm offended that you would compare this to the Lee situation, because she is a theif and a liar and I am not. Yes, I could have told you a month ago, but I really wanted to be able to come through because I like you, then I realized that this is totally crazy and I shouldn't have to be dealing with this stuff. I'm sorry it got to this point,too. As I said, I own my inaction and my hesitation telling you how I really felt. But, if I may say this, it's not good form to use your friends as p.o. boxes and personal clearing houses. I feel used, yes. Just a guess, but I bet Samia did too. If you feel you have to sneak around and hide the volume of makeup you buy from your mother, then maybe you need to look at that issue more closely. Talk to her, state your boundaries? Get a p.o. box? Stop buying so much makeup? I don't know, but don't use your friends to further your obsession, Lesly. This is something I should have confronted you about months ago. Emma's package is all ready to go. I'll be running by the p.o. today. I'll give you and her the dc number.
yes you should have confronted me about it a LONG time ago...it's not my problem that you didn't come to me about it...and samia doesn't feel that way...and if you felt used, then i apologize because that wasn't my intention. you know you could have simply said "i feel used, etc". you already know the reason as to why i didn't have a mailing address, which was in part because whenever anyone sent anything to my actual address, it got returned to sender. and you are NO one to tell me what i should/should not do with my cash, and especially not even speak on whats going on with me and the parent. until then, i'm done. =]
You sent all this stuff to my house, Lesly. The first time I was okay with it, but the stuff kept just kept coming. You didn't seem to be concerned with asking me if this was okay. However, I should have been a little more assertive with you, I own that. Now I have all this responsibility to send packages here and there and it isn't fair to me. I am busy like all day. I don't even have time to eat lunch. I'm off work after the post office closes. I have school and work and my family and those are my priorities. I've also been ill, something you probably didn't know. I don't screw people over, you should know that by now. I feel like some boundaries were violated here, and that is really unfortunate. I'm sorry that you've had to wait to get this stuff...but you are the one that sent these things to my house with out my concent. So now, you'll have to deal with my schedule. I'm not a courier or a clearing house. Honesty, I can't deal with anymore of this added stress. I'm sending Emmas package to you and then you can take care of it. The 7 bucks it would cost to send it to you is worth me not having to deal with the responsibility of sending this poor woman her package. Granted, she's waited long enough. So, tomorrow or monday, I'm going to the post office and sending you Emma's package, which is what I should have done in the first place. For whatever reason, please don't send things to my house anymore...I mean you haven't lately and that's cool, but in the future, it's just an added stressor that I can do without. Thanks.
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Emma's package is all ready to go. I'll be running by the p.o. today. I'll give you and her the dc number.
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