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Jul 04, 2008 00:37

the next person to tell me that having my kids at 25 is TOO YOUNG, is going to FLY through a fucking window!

There are TWEENS HAVING KIDS AT 16. THAT'S too fucking young.

so f-u all kthxbai

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darkserasenshi July 4 2008, 14:33:59 UTC

Who in the world told you that? o.o

I've always wanted to have kids by the time I'm 25 since I want 2 max and want them exactly 2 years apart and before I hit 30.

Of course that's not really happening for me T.T I will be 26 when I get married and of course we want some alone time so I probably won't actually have the first one till I'm 28-29ish then the 2nd one around 30-31ish XD

Then again, we'll see how well the first one goes before thinking about the 2nd one, lol...

dianachan July 4 2008, 15:18:38 UTC

it seems it's all I've ever heard. Not that I havent heard the arguements. it's killing me though. I understand what they mean, and what they mean is what I desire. HOWEVER, that isnt going to stop me from TRYING to achive my goal, and if I dont...fine.

it's simply an ideal. I would like to have kids while I still have the energy to run around and keep up with them, play with them, and BE there for them. truth be told at 30 I probably will have that same spunk to do it, but I simply would like to be a young mom. (further more when they grow up...it'd be nice to say, be in my 50s when they're 25, no they may not wanna hang out with mom, but I'm not seriously old and decrepid and can still be around to give much unwanted advice-like my mom XD; )

darkserasenshi July 4 2008, 15:20:53 UTC

Haha, I want to be a young/cool mom too.

dianachan July 4 2008, 15:25:53 UTC

exactly... and I feel every time I say that's what I want, I get shit for it.

ssfseiyakou July 4 2008, 17:15:42 UTC

They shouldn't give you shit. Just as long as you realize what goes along with having kids. *shrugs*

My theory is age (within reason, of course) doesn't matter. Financial stability, mental stability and emotional stability does. Some people make better parents when they are older. Some have what they need already. And some have no business what so ever having kids. LOL

I fall into that last oategory.

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