another day
I am so out of it.....my brain won't wake up today....
So my good guy friend (M) who is also my ex, is now dating my younger sister.
Me and M used to hang out and chill all the time, finally had a great friendship going, got to be one of the closest ppl to me.......and he and my sis all off a sudden start dating, and he no longer gives a shit about me.
Wonderful awakening. You think that it would be bro's before hoes, or that you keep your friends close cause they will always be there even though gfs and bfs come and go.......well I think that way , but apparently he doesn't.
We mad plans to chill last night (first time in the last 2 weeks) and instead of going to chill with me, he decided to stick with my sis until she goes to bed. After she is gone he hangs with me.....normally we would hang, watch a movie and be up late just bullshiting....but after one hour, he just calls it quits and up an leaves....he is trying to act like everything is a the same, but it's not......was making all these sexual jokes about my sis and him...then turning around and making mean sexual jokes about me (I normally wouldn't think too much of this, but he said some things that really hit home...things that I had confided in him).....oh and did I mention that he was texting my sis the whole time we were hanging?....said he was tired and left......I think he snuck back to her room after hanging with me.....
So by looking at that story what can we see......oh, that he won't hang with me unless he can't be with my sis. He would rather text her than give me his undivided attention. He finds it boring to hang with me now. Obviously he thinks I am not as good and my sis, and likes to keep reminding me. He is hanging with me to keep peace in the family. He isn't hanging out with me cause he wants to, it's just cause he feels that he needs to in order to keep some sort of 'friendship' between us, so I don't turn things fowl for him and my sis.
He wants to have his cake and eat it to.
My sis knows what's going on, but she still tries to play her innocent card. She lost that a long, long time ago. I don't buy her bullshit anymore, she knows what she is doing and what is happening and what it means to me and our who family, but she doesn't care. Her and M both don't give a shit. They play dumb, but I don't buy it for a second.
I would NEVER date an ex, brother, friend, or roommate of anyone who is my friend or family member. It fucks up the relationship you have with that person. Always.
Just like things are getting fucked up here.
I am angry at them both.
I hate this so so so much.
So my good guy friend (M) who is also my ex, is now dating my younger sister.
Me and M used to hang out and chill all the time, finally had a great friendship going, got to be one of the closest ppl to me.......and he and my sis all off a sudden start dating, and he no longer gives a shit about me.
Wonderful awakening. You think that it would be bro's before hoes, or that you keep your friends close cause they will always be there even though gfs and bfs come and go.......well I think that way , but apparently he doesn't.
We mad plans to chill last night (first time in the last 2 weeks) and instead of going to chill with me, he decided to stick with my sis until she goes to bed. After she is gone he hangs with me.....normally we would hang, watch a movie and be up late just bullshiting....but after one hour, he just calls it quits and up an leaves....he is trying to act like everything is a the same, but it's not......was making all these sexual jokes about my sis and him...then turning around and making mean sexual jokes about me (I normally wouldn't think too much of this, but he said some things that really hit home...things that I had confided in him).....oh and did I mention that he was texting my sis the whole time we were hanging?....said he was tired and left......I think he snuck back to her room after hanging with me.....
So by looking at that story what can we see......oh, that he won't hang with me unless he can't be with my sis. He would rather text her than give me his undivided attention. He finds it boring to hang with me now. Obviously he thinks I am not as good and my sis, and likes to keep reminding me. He is hanging with me to keep peace in the family. He isn't hanging out with me cause he wants to, it's just cause he feels that he needs to in order to keep some sort of 'friendship' between us, so I don't turn things fowl for him and my sis.
He wants to have his cake and eat it to.
My sis knows what's going on, but she still tries to play her innocent card. She lost that a long, long time ago. I don't buy her bullshit anymore, she knows what she is doing and what is happening and what it means to me and our who family, but she doesn't care. Her and M both don't give a shit. They play dumb, but I don't buy it for a second.
I would NEVER date an ex, brother, friend, or roommate of anyone who is my friend or family member. It fucks up the relationship you have with that person. Always.
Just like things are getting fucked up here.
I am angry at them both.
I hate this so so so much.