so torn
I am so torn right now between my heart and between what my friend and brain tells me.
On the one hand, even though the girl doesn't love me now, perhaps someday she will come to love me the way I love her. That's what I believe in my heart. A wiser man than me once said, "she doesn't love me but someday in the future maybe she'll feel the same and this pain will go away."
But at the same time the girl needs to decide what she really wants and although I hate forcing her into that position, perhaps my friend is right that she needs to make that decision and that I've given her a year and that's enough time to figure it out.
I hate making decisions.
On the one hand, even though the girl doesn't love me now, perhaps someday she will come to love me the way I love her. That's what I believe in my heart. A wiser man than me once said, "she doesn't love me but someday in the future maybe she'll feel the same and this pain will go away."
But at the same time the girl needs to decide what she really wants and although I hate forcing her into that position, perhaps my friend is right that she needs to make that decision and that I've given her a year and that's enough time to figure it out.
I hate making decisions.