Aug 14, 2009 08:27
Coming up next month, I'll have been here for 3 years. 3 YEARS, man.
So, I'm making a tally of all the things I miss, in no particular order:
I miss being able to socialize any time, with nearly anyone.
I miss Taco Bell.
I miss holiday visits to my grandmother's house.
I miss zero latency pings.
I miss being able to not be involved in racism 24/7.
I miss 24 hour Wal-Mart. (And Steak n Shake)
I miss backyard cookouts.
I miss snow.
I miss Autumn air.
I miss Halloween decorations.
I miss the Jaycee Hall.
I miss logic.
I miss catching little bits of conversations I could understand when sitting somewhere, doing nothing.
I miss driving without constant traffic and U-turns. (I miss turning lanes and exit ramps).
I miss late night political or philosophical discussions.
I miss my friends and my brother, Sam.
THINGS I DON'T MISS
I don't miss unfriendly coldness in people.
I don't miss constant drama and gossipmongering.
I don't miss living hand to mouth constantly.
I don't miss only being able to afford a tiny apartment with roommates.
I don't miss NASCAR fans.
I don't miss not getting laid.
I don't miss constant expectations.
I don't miss planning for everything, even leisure time.
I don't miss George W. Bush.
I don't miss credit ratings.
I don't miss American Cops.
I don't miss the American dating scene.
I don't miss always having to walk on eggshells any time a minority or woman is around, for fear of saying the wrong thing.
I don't miss sports bars or frat boys.
I don't miss constantly feeling inferior to those with more stuff than me or thinner than me.
I guess things are ok here. I'm currently the head of the Social Studies department at my school, which means a slight pay raise, but a TON more interaction with the administration, and thus, more headache.
Mom's fine... we moved to a cheaper place, so she'll have more money to decorate the house with. Her health is holding up, and she seems generally happy.
I'm generally happy. I could do a lot worse than where I'm at, that's for sure. I just wish my friends could come enjoy it with me.
Matt