Oct 02, 2005 09:01
“The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women-
And What To Do About It...”
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail
With Women-And How To Make Sure YOU
Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common
Mistakes...
MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never
seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends
that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they
were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is.
They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful
GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful
ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's
hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll
NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You”
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they
REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE
HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you
with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you
expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and
do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
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MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think
will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a
woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up
to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always
getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women
actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who
chase her around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her
Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice
dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you
for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going
to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-
compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.
That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make
with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being
approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY
by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times
per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends
her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who
starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or
two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other
guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
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