O...M...G....!!!!!
OK, I don’t think I'm one to complain a grate deal. I try my hardest to look on the bright side and find something positive to say about every situation I come up against, good or bad. And I know times are hard for us now. The hurricane is bearing down and its hard on every one to have 11 people in one house, two of them being kids. And I should be patient and understanding as much as I can. I know all that.
But this is going way to fucking far!! How RUDE is it to use someone’s toiletries without asking?!? Not to mention gross! What the hell!? I go to take a freaking shower and I find my poof on in the bottom of the tub which is COVERED with sad and dirt. Plus my towel is on the floor wet through and grimy. And my conditioner is uncapped to get diluted. Nothing is where I put it. Fuck! My exfoliating gloves were swimming in the sand as well. What the fuck! Who the hell goes to someone’s house and just uses their stuff without asking. I would probably have said yes if they had, or, more likely, shown them where to find more stuff to use on their own. The extra is under the sink. In the only cabinet in the guest bathroom, go figure, along with extra towels and all kinds of extra stuff for guests. At least if they asked I would have known what to expect. This is the only time I've forgotten to take my stuff out of the bathroom when they've come over, incidentally. I figured something like this would happen but not this bad. My bad for thinking they would respect my stuff and treat it right. My bad for thinking that they would think of my side at all. My bad for thinking she would watch her kids like moms should. My Fucking BAD!!!
My God! My sister is raising the most horrible kinds on this planet. They are wild as hell and have absolutely no discipline. She's a chronic liar who gets a kick out of attempting to fool people, which never happens when she comes here. I think that throws her off balance by the looks on her face when I catch her in her lying. He's got to be the most annoying kid I've ever met. He constantly repeats cliche phrases, a new one each time he comes over. "Did'ja see it, did'ja see, did'ja see??", "Squeek I tell ya'! Squeek, squeek!" Over and over and over and over and over and over and over till you feel like yourgoingtoloseyourmind!!!!!!
But I can deal with that. Their just doing what they do, and I can deal with that by getting out and leaving them to do it. But actively trashing the bathroom and "the mother" doesn’t come in afterwards and makes sure it’s clean? She leaves them to take their bath on their own and leave the place however they want. I've seen her house and I'm sure that is exactly what she does there, too. My sister is the worst at raising kids!! There! I said it!!!!! Either that or the rudest, most thoughtless, self-centered PIG in this end of Florida. And that is saying a lot.
Ack!!! I'm going mad and it’s just the end of the first day!!! They are so inconsiderate! And what really gets me is that she constantly makes a show of helping out, like she is so considerate. But its all half assed! She puts the leftovers away, but puts them all together. Who wants to eat lettuces with spaghetti in the same bag? She washes the dishes but doesn't use hot water. How the hell is it supposed to wash and sanitize if it’s not hot?? She offers to clean the house for my mom. My mom gives her one job that she wants done (dust because dusting makes her allergies act up severely) and she spends the day on her hands and knees making a huge show of cleaning the floors, which didn't need it, the hardest way possible when there's a perfectly good swiffer mop right there to do the job. What a hypocritical show off! She only makes more work for my poor mother who is doing her best not to go crazy herself. We take it in shifts to listen to her self righteous bull shit. She doesn't watch her kids so when things get broken or ruined, and they always do, she thinks she can yell at the top of her voice and that will make things all better. She always wants to be the center of attention and be praised for all the "stuff" she "does."
Maybe I'm being a spoiled brat. Maybe I'm taking things too hard, but I'm fucking tired of it. I hate just dealing with it. That is what she wants and expects. She knows no one wants to say anything. She lets them get away with it because no one will call her on it. She never even reprimands them when they do OBVIOUSLY bad thing right in front of her unless I or someone happens to see it and say some thing. Then she's all like, "Blah blah blah!!" and "If I catch you one more time blah blah blah!" I can't take it anymore! I'm going crazy! I think I'm a pretty sane and understanding person but I've just come to my limit, so help me!
He he, I guess only family can make one go this completely nuts, huh? That felt good to get off my chest. lol >_
But this is going way to fucking far!! How RUDE is it to use someone’s toiletries without asking?!? Not to mention gross! What the hell!? I go to take a freaking shower and I find my poof on in the bottom of the tub which is COVERED with sad and dirt. Plus my towel is on the floor wet through and grimy. And my conditioner is uncapped to get diluted. Nothing is where I put it. Fuck! My exfoliating gloves were swimming in the sand as well. What the fuck! Who the hell goes to someone’s house and just uses their stuff without asking. I would probably have said yes if they had, or, more likely, shown them where to find more stuff to use on their own. The extra is under the sink. In the only cabinet in the guest bathroom, go figure, along with extra towels and all kinds of extra stuff for guests. At least if they asked I would have known what to expect. This is the only time I've forgotten to take my stuff out of the bathroom when they've come over, incidentally. I figured something like this would happen but not this bad. My bad for thinking they would respect my stuff and treat it right. My bad for thinking that they would think of my side at all. My bad for thinking she would watch her kids like moms should. My Fucking BAD!!!
My God! My sister is raising the most horrible kinds on this planet. They are wild as hell and have absolutely no discipline. She's a chronic liar who gets a kick out of attempting to fool people, which never happens when she comes here. I think that throws her off balance by the looks on her face when I catch her in her lying. He's got to be the most annoying kid I've ever met. He constantly repeats cliche phrases, a new one each time he comes over. "Did'ja see it, did'ja see, did'ja see??", "Squeek I tell ya'! Squeek, squeek!" Over and over and over and over and over and over and over till you feel like yourgoingtoloseyourmind!!!!!!
But I can deal with that. Their just doing what they do, and I can deal with that by getting out and leaving them to do it. But actively trashing the bathroom and "the mother" doesn’t come in afterwards and makes sure it’s clean? She leaves them to take their bath on their own and leave the place however they want. I've seen her house and I'm sure that is exactly what she does there, too. My sister is the worst at raising kids!! There! I said it!!!!! Either that or the rudest, most thoughtless, self-centered PIG in this end of Florida. And that is saying a lot.
Ack!!! I'm going mad and it’s just the end of the first day!!! They are so inconsiderate! And what really gets me is that she constantly makes a show of helping out, like she is so considerate. But its all half assed! She puts the leftovers away, but puts them all together. Who wants to eat lettuces with spaghetti in the same bag? She washes the dishes but doesn't use hot water. How the hell is it supposed to wash and sanitize if it’s not hot?? She offers to clean the house for my mom. My mom gives her one job that she wants done (dust because dusting makes her allergies act up severely) and she spends the day on her hands and knees making a huge show of cleaning the floors, which didn't need it, the hardest way possible when there's a perfectly good swiffer mop right there to do the job. What a hypocritical show off! She only makes more work for my poor mother who is doing her best not to go crazy herself. We take it in shifts to listen to her self righteous bull shit. She doesn't watch her kids so when things get broken or ruined, and they always do, she thinks she can yell at the top of her voice and that will make things all better. She always wants to be the center of attention and be praised for all the "stuff" she "does."
Maybe I'm being a spoiled brat. Maybe I'm taking things too hard, but I'm fucking tired of it. I hate just dealing with it. That is what she wants and expects. She knows no one wants to say anything. She lets them get away with it because no one will call her on it. She never even reprimands them when they do OBVIOUSLY bad thing right in front of her unless I or someone happens to see it and say some thing. Then she's all like, "Blah blah blah!!" and "If I catch you one more time blah blah blah!" I can't take it anymore! I'm going crazy! I think I'm a pretty sane and understanding person but I've just come to my limit, so help me!
He he, I guess only family can make one go this completely nuts, huh? That felt good to get off my chest. lol >_