because i'm a SHE (see
http://www.flylady.net) and did not take care and concern with a certain document, it is now missing. i need this document and have no idea where to start looking. it fell out of my datebook in the van. i remember picking it up and bringing it in the house. after that.....no idea.
during the course of my day today i found many things needing my attention that will take way more time because of the way things operate on a governmental level. federal and state. dh needs documents faxed to the ones handling tricare eligibility to get that fixed. then the state agency handling kidcare apparently consolidated offices or something, and so my best bet is to just reapply and hope things move fast. i can't leave a message because the box is full. grr. so either my son has to come off his meds or i have to cough up the cash for it. neither of which is a totally feasible option. i guess my job once again comes in handy...dh's is an off and on for a while. a lil money here n there is better than no money at all.
went to the flybabies gathering at panera tonight. only 2 other ladies there but they seemed nice. didnt get a weirdo vibe from them. they're both older than i am, like in their mid to late forties. hope to catch the next one next month and meet some more new people.
c told me he wants to take karate at the PAL, which is very inexpensive. he needs an activity and this would work well for him. b is a different story, and wants to take taekwondo at a place in mandarin, not sure how much it is, no one has contacted me after filling out the online contact form. will have to call them. if i can at all get b to take the regular karate classes at the PAL till we have the resources to do something else, that would help a ton. he's also told me that now he doesnt want to play soccer. i'm thinking he's afraid of something new. he probably thinks that i wont follow up on the martial arts thing or the soccer thing. he has good reason. but i know they both really need some sort of activity.