moi -- and spankingdevifemmeJuly 31 2010, 13:49:25 UTC
Sweetie, I might have guessed you'd respond quickly to my questions. And, wet as I am (gotta do something about that!), I appreciate your explaining it. As I've said here (though not recently), I used to be spanked often by my SO, whom I've lived with and loved for over a decade. She then "got religion," in a way -- deciding that kinkiness was just too much for her. It's the old "lesbian bed death," which I'd scoffed at -- just what happens to uptight folks who lose touch with their feelings.
Alas, not so simple as that! We do both love each other; we share so much else in life. We've tried "counseling," in many variations; we've thought about splitting up -- but the ties are so deep!
So, I'm reduced to "playing" on line...nothing more. [Sigh!] She's explicit that there'll be no sex on the side, no other girls in my life, if we're to stay together. (Indeed, she hates my blogging..and we fight about it occasionally. But she grumpily tolerates it.)
Sad case, I know -- but I wanted to give you a bit of my background, particularly given my intense reaction to Natasha's delicious photos.
Re: moi -- and spankingeqfeJuly 31 2010, 23:12:44 UTC
Lol, after 30 years with the same woman, I know all about "getting religion," and the decreasing menu of acceptable activities. There are more than one kind of ties that bind, for sure. hugs back.
Re: moi -- and spankingdevifemmeAugust 1 2010, 22:02:16 UTC
Oh, wow! You and I are kindred spirits..."decreasing menu of acceptable activities" says it so well. What is it about intolerance -- and why do you and I put up with it?
Actually, my earlier comment answers the SECOND question, at least. "Love" is an utter mystery to me -- though I evidently recognize it when I see it.
Alas, not so simple as that! We do both love each other; we share so much else in life. We've tried "counseling," in many variations; we've thought about splitting up -- but the ties are so deep!
So, I'm reduced to "playing" on line...nothing more. [Sigh!] She's explicit that there'll be no sex on the side, no other girls in my life, if we're to stay together. (Indeed, she hates my blogging..and we fight about it occasionally. But she grumpily tolerates it.)
Sad case, I know -- but I wanted to give you a bit of my background, particularly given my intense reaction to Natasha's delicious photos.
Hugz, J
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Actually, my earlier comment answers the SECOND question, at least. "Love" is an utter mystery to me -- though I evidently recognize it when I see it.
More hugs, sweetie!
J
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