In need of assitance.

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I find myself in need of relationship advice and recommendations for books on the subject of relationship advice. I have plenty at home, including notecards and spreadsheets made from careful study of the subject material, but all of the information gleaned seems to have escaped me. I am also no longer home and cannot reference any of it, so

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[lu_dao_gu_niang]

...I'm confused.

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What about?

[lu_dao_gu_niang]

You can learn about this from...books and notecards and spreadsheets...?

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I have been trying to for quite a while. I still have much to learn, though.

[lu_dao_gu_niang]

S-should relationships really be treated like exams...?

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I don't know. It is how I have learned to deal with them, though.

[lu_dao_gu_niang]

That seems so complicated...

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I make it simpler with the notecards and studied my spreadsheets often.

[lu_dao_gu_niang]

Do they really help?

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Sometimes. Most of the time I merely get confused looks.

[lu_dao_gu_niang]

M-maybe if you were a little more...spontaneous...?

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Hm.

There were a few times that has worked.

[lu_dao_gu_niang]

M-maybe you should try it more often.

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It is hard to believe I left this off of my previous speadsheets.

[lu_dao_gu_niang]

Y-you could always try being direct too...

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I wouldn't want anything I might have to say to be offensively taken.