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ok so its common knowlage my mom and i haven't gotten along since i was a wee lass.
lately its at an all time high.
and of course, everyone tells me "just dont listen to her!"
but when shes constatnly telling me how tired she is from work and needs me to come to her house and clean it more becasue shes just soo exhausted from sitting behind a desk 4 days a week at a hotel smoking 2 packs a day
i just cant buy it. there's no reason why anyone would be too tired to do their own dishes, and lets be real, its her first job in 14 years.
its more of a disrespectful feeling, if anything. I have worked 40+ hours a week since i was sixteen. she refused to sign any kind of paper to allow me to play sports my senior year so i could work. now, here i am, acclerated nursing program and 2 jobs later, working the same amount, being told I need to help her.
of course, i said no. from that point i was told i'm no longer allowed to stay in her house unless i throughly clean it daily, have all the laundry washed and folded and put in ther proper room, and pay her 200 dollars a week to live there.
sadly, my brother is 19 and sister is 13, both ages where i had said responsibilities and a job, but I am appointed to clean up after them as well as do their laundry and make their dinner.
yes, i was told i had to have dinner made nightly. on the days where i would have work 6am-midnight, she requested i have the dinner pre made before work , labeled and placed in the fridge.
so, now that we have that update from the crazy herself, i'll fill you in on what i have been doing.
between steve's parents house, andrew's couch, and places here and there with naps in my car, i have been walking into closing doors with a home and a roomate.
my move to bordentown was soiled as my (29 year old mother of a 9 year old) friend backed out of the lease and moved back with her mom. told me it was for a month. so, i waited around. after this she tells me its for the year.
after this, i was supposed to move by the beach to an add i saw on craigslist.
the landlord has been texing me "hey sexy" nightly. so, that was a no.
winter rentals by the beach fell through each time as well.
so, i have been couch surfing and bed crashing as i look for a place to call my own.
lately its at an all time high.
and of course, everyone tells me "just dont listen to her!"
but when shes constatnly telling me how tired she is from work and needs me to come to her house and clean it more becasue shes just soo exhausted from sitting behind a desk 4 days a week at a hotel smoking 2 packs a day
i just cant buy it. there's no reason why anyone would be too tired to do their own dishes, and lets be real, its her first job in 14 years.
its more of a disrespectful feeling, if anything. I have worked 40+ hours a week since i was sixteen. she refused to sign any kind of paper to allow me to play sports my senior year so i could work. now, here i am, acclerated nursing program and 2 jobs later, working the same amount, being told I need to help her.
of course, i said no. from that point i was told i'm no longer allowed to stay in her house unless i throughly clean it daily, have all the laundry washed and folded and put in ther proper room, and pay her 200 dollars a week to live there.
sadly, my brother is 19 and sister is 13, both ages where i had said responsibilities and a job, but I am appointed to clean up after them as well as do their laundry and make their dinner.
yes, i was told i had to have dinner made nightly. on the days where i would have work 6am-midnight, she requested i have the dinner pre made before work , labeled and placed in the fridge.
so, now that we have that update from the crazy herself, i'll fill you in on what i have been doing.
between steve's parents house, andrew's couch, and places here and there with naps in my car, i have been walking into closing doors with a home and a roomate.
my move to bordentown was soiled as my (29 year old mother of a 9 year old) friend backed out of the lease and moved back with her mom. told me it was for a month. so, i waited around. after this she tells me its for the year.
after this, i was supposed to move by the beach to an add i saw on craigslist.
the landlord has been texing me "hey sexy" nightly. so, that was a no.
winter rentals by the beach fell through each time as well.
so, i have been couch surfing and bed crashing as i look for a place to call my own.