why.....
why are women so confusing? Ok, so heres the story.. i got my ex(we have established a friendship) some flowers cause she got promoted at work and she is going for an interview today for a new job and well just because she deserves something nice done for her every once in awhile. so i had them delivered to her work, so it would be a surprise. Well she called me said they were beautiful thanked me for them and told me she didnt deserve them. I was like whatever. So she said she would wake me when she got home.(i leave for texas tonight) So she comes home wakes me up, stands on my computer chair(my bed is lofted) and says give me a kiss.. i was like.. ok i must be dreaming.. so i just leaned my head forward so she could kiss my forehead. then i was just laying there looking at her, and she starting playing like peek a boo with her hand covering my eyes, so i grabbed her hand and just held it.. well she usually pulls away.. she didnt.. then she took my hand and kissed the back of it. and not a quick kiss either.. then we chatted and she went to go pick up "dipshit"(her words exactly, refering to her gf) and she kissed my hand once more and said Love you.. well i didnt response so she was like "LOVE YOU" and i said love you back to her of course.. Well earlier this week we were having a phone convo and she was like we are friends with a very strong connection.. what they means i dont know.. i won her this flower at the carnival on out second date(almost a year ago now) and it has been attached my visor in my car ever since.. well in the phone convo she told me i am never allowed to take it out.. i was like well what if i get a new one.. she said i have to move it to the new car. Well later that night i sent her text saying "I know this is kinda random and you probally wont answer, but are you over me?" Well didnt respond to my text but when she got home that night she came in my room and was like "im not answering that question" i said why not, she just smiled and waved her finger " no,no,no.. im not answering.." i really dont understand this woman. we have broken up for almost a year now and she has had a new gf(her ex from before me) since march and i dont know what to think anymore.. she has me so confused.. I have established a point finally where i am ok with our being friends, full well knowing i will never be over her, but hey friends is better than nothing. but she has been acting so weird this week.. its like she went from treating me like crap to being lovey dovey with me. I dunno.. oh yeah and i am going on vaca to see my dad in texas all next week and she told me she is gonna miss me, but she is gonna talk to me everyday i am gone. I have no clue.. women are a strange breed and i dont know...