Welcome to another day!
Good Morning World!
Sometimes I think I would like to join a cult just to see if its really as bad as everyone makes it out to be... ok not really... I have enough issues with people controlling my life without having a group of people controlling it.
There was a time I would panic and obsess over things that really didn't pertain to me or that I had absolutely no control over. I still do it occasionally but I get over it a lot quicker than I used to. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so damn empathetic. I tend to take other people's problems and make them my own. And seeing as how I have a hard time dealing with my own issues this isn't always a good thing. The only good side to this is that when asked for advice I give honest advice. I think about how I would handle being in that situation and go with it. Sometimes people don't want honesty though. They want people to tell them they are doing the right thing etc. etc. I am just not one of those people who can pat people on the back and say way to go when I think they are fucking up. I usually don't give advice unless its asked for, and I can be a great listener but it makes me angry when people will sit and bitch about their problems for hours on end but they have no intention of changing the behavior that is causing these problems. If you don't plan to do anything about it.. I think that forfeits your right to sit and constantly bitch about it.
Well that was just my random thought for the day. I think sometimes random rambling is a good thing. :)
Sometimes I think I would like to join a cult just to see if its really as bad as everyone makes it out to be... ok not really... I have enough issues with people controlling my life without having a group of people controlling it.
There was a time I would panic and obsess over things that really didn't pertain to me or that I had absolutely no control over. I still do it occasionally but I get over it a lot quicker than I used to. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so damn empathetic. I tend to take other people's problems and make them my own. And seeing as how I have a hard time dealing with my own issues this isn't always a good thing. The only good side to this is that when asked for advice I give honest advice. I think about how I would handle being in that situation and go with it. Sometimes people don't want honesty though. They want people to tell them they are doing the right thing etc. etc. I am just not one of those people who can pat people on the back and say way to go when I think they are fucking up. I usually don't give advice unless its asked for, and I can be a great listener but it makes me angry when people will sit and bitch about their problems for hours on end but they have no intention of changing the behavior that is causing these problems. If you don't plan to do anything about it.. I think that forfeits your right to sit and constantly bitch about it.
Well that was just my random thought for the day. I think sometimes random rambling is a good thing. :)