Jan 26, 2006 15:44
Dear reader,
A life passes us by we all realise that we are not meant for one person. We must put ourselves in the shoes of other people to be known. Being known is what everyone wants. We want to be known by that one person, by that one special person who makes you happy. Filling the hole of depression and anger. Sought not for our own gain but for the healthy relationship between two people. This is the one thing everyone wants. Everyone wants someone--the darkest of the dark--the happiest of the happy. We all need that one special person in our life. Whether we make it known or hide it from all, we all need that one person.
If one were to ask the darkest person in the world what they loved more than anything, they might respond with "solitude." However, if one were to ask if they had ever loved someone, they would most likely lie and say "no." Love is an emotion everyone is capable of having, but being deprived of it as a child, or having to ultimately lose it, will have a series of effects on a person. When love enters a life, it ultimately matures a person. When love exits the life, the person is lost and is never able to be found again unless that person finds the "soul mate." Opposites attract, and equals reflect. It is by this very fact that if you are intelligent, beautiful and nice, you will fall in love with an ugly, stupid and mean person. However, if people were to think of this "Opposites attract" statement, than there is over one billion opposites in the world.
Out of this one billion it is broken down further into fifty million just by your "type." If you like men, women or people who were born with congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH). From this fifty million--now--we will take the race you most prefer. (This can all be mathmatically proven, if I am correct) After calculating the sex, and race of the person you would like this should have brought you down to over fifteen million or twenty-five million people. You would then need to alter your statistics by what you would most like in your ideal spouse.
E.G. Kind, thoughtful, sweet, compassionate, romantic and understanding.
The chances of finding someone like that in your current surroundings without help is nearly impossible. Especially if you are in high school, middle school or college. After establishing your preferences, race, sex and all of that jazz you should be down to a mere five-to-ten million people.
There are many people in the world, spouses will be hard to find, especially if you are picky about specifics. But, if you can truly say you love ONE person in this world of over six billion five hundred and ninety-nine million four hundred and twenty-one thousand one hundred and seventy-four people is going to be difficult. Don't give up at the first sign of defeat.
Good luck. Remember, love is not something which should be wasted, savour your lover, treat the person nicely. One day you will thank yourself that you never gave up. And for those of you who aren't in love, or do not love someone, don't worry. One day you will find someone.
Sincerely,
Ryokushin Ikari Yuroshima