The June Bug
Apparently,
agreeing to have a baby as soon as we can has opened up a can of very sensual worms within me. In the past week, I have been more "in the mood" than I have been all year.
My husband and I have tried positions we never tried, we were actually able to have sex with me on top (something that we've not had success with since we met..but is much easier for me because of my hip problems) and I have been wanting it more and more.
There is however a small hole in the fabric of our lives now...because my sister has chosen a wedding date for next year. If we get pregnant now, it's fine. Our baby would be between 2-3 months old at that point (June 9th, 2007). However, since the wedding is in Colorado, and we'd have to fly...I cannot be 7-9 months pregnant...for safety reasons. So...there becomes a portion of the year that we CANNOT be TTC, unless I want to be dangerous or risk missing my sister's wedding.
So, August through December...we cannot be "newly" pregnant. Meaning..if we are not pregnant by August, we need to stop trying. I have decided to be okay with this...as horrible as it will be, because I don't want to complicate the biggest day of her life. I want her to be able to come for the birth and if the baby is due in May or June she will be less able to come here...and I won't be able to go there!
One thing at a time.
There is no reason to think I won't get pregnant in June or July.
:)
I'm only a few days away from ovulation...so yay!
Here's hoping.
agreeing to have a baby as soon as we can has opened up a can of very sensual worms within me. In the past week, I have been more "in the mood" than I have been all year.
My husband and I have tried positions we never tried, we were actually able to have sex with me on top (something that we've not had success with since we met..but is much easier for me because of my hip problems) and I have been wanting it more and more.
There is however a small hole in the fabric of our lives now...because my sister has chosen a wedding date for next year. If we get pregnant now, it's fine. Our baby would be between 2-3 months old at that point (June 9th, 2007). However, since the wedding is in Colorado, and we'd have to fly...I cannot be 7-9 months pregnant...for safety reasons. So...there becomes a portion of the year that we CANNOT be TTC, unless I want to be dangerous or risk missing my sister's wedding.
So, August through December...we cannot be "newly" pregnant. Meaning..if we are not pregnant by August, we need to stop trying. I have decided to be okay with this...as horrible as it will be, because I don't want to complicate the biggest day of her life. I want her to be able to come for the birth and if the baby is due in May or June she will be less able to come here...and I won't be able to go there!
One thing at a time.
There is no reason to think I won't get pregnant in June or July.
:)
I'm only a few days away from ovulation...so yay!
Here's hoping.