last 2 weeks
In the last 2 weeks,we have kinda lived together ,in a hotel room right in town as he works in the west and i work in the east.
A glimpse of routinal life
Much as we tried to give each other attention we ended up both tired,creating a vicious cycle.We have concluded that unless both of us have the same weekday off, we could only have the weekend to rest and enjoy some quality time,which is very much like the growns-up in a commercialised world.Too busy on weekdays and felt inactivity a little too empty in a small place Sg.In fact,i have one tuition smacked rite at 4pm on Sunday which makes Sunday very handicapped.He was nice to waste his Sunday loitering(reading stuff) around with me.Anyway,the thing about him is that he dun lose his time hanging around,or rather it is not is his habit,of nua-ing.n coz he dun 'nua' he needs lotsa quality sleep.
Relationship status
We have levelled up our declaration for our relationship and of coz nothing comes without obligations,up to now i still could not say that he is the one,or i have found the one.But he is the closest to the one,oh com'on he is my bf ,if he is not the one,he shd be the one closest.I have grown to take relationships seriously and rationally,i m giving myself more thoughts and listening to myself more and improving laterally.I hope to learn more about him and accept him as the very characteristics that i like about him could be a double-edge sword and read his non verbal langauge in order to understand him better,so that we could work well as a couple together.
Indeed,there are lotsa things that need to be worked on,we are still a very very very young couple.teething problems,n blah blah blah problems.....mostly superficial probs,i hope to find a win-win situation to enhance our relationship so that it is more substainable and relaxed.And mainly spend quality time together not spending 10 mins deciding on trivial issues.
Up to now, i feel blessed that he possesses a certain level of maturity and is willing to work out the relationship and realises that the importance of working it out,he held my faith up when i was feeling weak ,even though he is not the most agreeable person in the world.
We walk by faith,not by sight.
A glimpse of routinal life
Much as we tried to give each other attention we ended up both tired,creating a vicious cycle.We have concluded that unless both of us have the same weekday off, we could only have the weekend to rest and enjoy some quality time,which is very much like the growns-up in a commercialised world.Too busy on weekdays and felt inactivity a little too empty in a small place Sg.In fact,i have one tuition smacked rite at 4pm on Sunday which makes Sunday very handicapped.He was nice to waste his Sunday loitering(reading stuff) around with me.Anyway,the thing about him is that he dun lose his time hanging around,or rather it is not is his habit,of nua-ing.n coz he dun 'nua' he needs lotsa quality sleep.
Relationship status
We have levelled up our declaration for our relationship and of coz nothing comes without obligations,up to now i still could not say that he is the one,or i have found the one.But he is the closest to the one,oh com'on he is my bf ,if he is not the one,he shd be the one closest.I have grown to take relationships seriously and rationally,i m giving myself more thoughts and listening to myself more and improving laterally.I hope to learn more about him and accept him as the very characteristics that i like about him could be a double-edge sword and read his non verbal langauge in order to understand him better,so that we could work well as a couple together.
Indeed,there are lotsa things that need to be worked on,we are still a very very very young couple.teething problems,n blah blah blah problems.....mostly superficial probs,i hope to find a win-win situation to enhance our relationship so that it is more substainable and relaxed.And mainly spend quality time together not spending 10 mins deciding on trivial issues.
Up to now, i feel blessed that he possesses a certain level of maturity and is willing to work out the relationship and realises that the importance of working it out,he held my faith up when i was feeling weak ,even though he is not the most agreeable person in the world.
We walk by faith,not by sight.