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A suggestion, when dealing with those whom you've just met:
Manners are a must. If one wishes contact, then courtesy and politeness are necessary to reach that goal. But it is dangerous to use manners too much- extreme manners aren't colorful. Also, synthetic manners won't do. Unless you've gone through forty years of employing copies of the real thing, your code of politeness is still just a copy. But that's no reason not to; if something is copied enough times, it will begin to remember the original so well that it could end up mimicking it perfectly. Look to camoflogued butterflies as your example.
Manners are a must. If one wishes contact, then courtesy and politeness are necessary to reach that goal. But it is dangerous to use manners too much- extreme manners aren't colorful. Also, synthetic manners won't do. Unless you've gone through forty years of employing copies of the real thing, your code of politeness is still just a copy. But that's no reason not to; if something is copied enough times, it will begin to remember the original so well that it could end up mimicking it perfectly. Look to camoflogued butterflies as your example.