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So, continuing on the same way as the last entry...life still sucks...what else is new.
Let's see..where should I leave myself off so I can come back years later and read this joy.....oh...let's start with the worst of it.....hell...let's just make a whole post about it.
My sister is still a hardcore drug user. I found out the extent of it not too long ago. She's apparently OD'd and died twice. She's so lucky when it comes to jail. She's been caught numerous times now...and she's managed to claw her way out. There's another court date coming though..it seemed she was going to squeeze out of it one more time with no jail...but then she got caught again...so we'll see what's going to happen this court date. There is no rock bottom to this girl. Dying twice isn't enough? What is? I fear the answer. But more than one of us assumes it might be the answer.
She's now divorcing her husband (did I mention she got married 7 months after high school?)...who is an illegal. Really cool though. I love the guy. He has been here for years and he's from Columbia, but his visa expired and he's been "not here" for a few years now. She really loved this guy quick...and I guess she eventually was going to marry him...but he had a close call and they decided to do it fast. Well it's a year later...and the guy (and her) moved into our basement and they STILL haven't managed to save up the fucking 1500 dollars just to get his legal papers. So he's married...in limbo...and no money to get his papers.
The plan was for her to move back home (she lived with him within a month after she graduated HS)...in our newly finished basement which we did half for her and half for house value (as it's been under talks for years) and save up money for a year then go out on her own and make a life for herself (and him). Living with her bf...she was great..when she visited the home...she was nice, calm, kind...sharing...doing good for herself. Well as soon as she moved back, she reverted to everything negative and bad and evil she did and was building up on her last stint here on her senior year. All of the bad things went back. And while a lot of it is now outward and to herself (and not us involved), and not at home anymore, it seemed to get worse. And they haven't saved a dime.
This time the husband is involved as he was the one caught with the drugs. And she was driving. But there was enough for two, let's just say.
What's even better (sorry future me, if I'm jumping around alot, follow along) is that for a few months now she's had a "Secret" boyfriend. Funny thing is...he's also Columbian...and also illegal. And it wasn't so secret. She was on the phone with him non-stop every day when she was here and then she was taking a lot of mystery trips without her Husband. Non stop on the phone though...and being a bitch every time someone said something to her or asked her to get off the phone...and she was stupid enough to go in the room next to mine where I heard her tell him how much she loved him and all that bs. Well in the end finally it came out and everyone knows. Her husband was actually found trying to cheat on her a long time ago...with a few women...but I don't think he ever did do anything...but still..it was bad enough...so some in my family feel this was her way of getting back..but now she's gone farther...and my father and I do not forgive it...and neither of us want to meet or know this other boyfriend (my father ignored the boyfriend completely when he came up to my father and offered his hand in greeting)...as my sister and her husband are finally over...he's still living here though..but she's with the boyfriend all the time in his house.
Funny thing is...we actually all wish to keep the husband as he's down to earth and even though he has his own problems..he doesn't explode like my sister...and does what he's asked. But he's the one my parents have "semi" kicked out. I guess they decided to let him stay till he can save up some money to get out. He's checked out some appartments and everything already...so at least he's moving.
So anyway...she's relapsed a bunch of times...and then got hooked on the weening drugs...(it's heroin that she's on btw), then back to the drug itself again. She's gotten evil all over...I hide my wallet. As I've found out some lovely things. She's now stolen every expensive piece of jewelry my mother has ever owned. She hid the last of it in a safety deposit box in a closet...and we now think my sister found it and stole it. And I find she's still trying to bring me down every time my parents get onto her.
OH! And I forgot! The car accidents! Oh man. I now have the longest lasting car. And that's only because I didn't let it in her hands. Our insurance company informed us we had over 7 accidents in 2 years and if they didn't kick us off the plan, it was going to go up. Well instead of calming down, my sister goes and gets in a few more accidents/tickets. I think she got in two accidents in and around Newark (most likely during a drug run), and a few here. And her husband who has no license and wasn't supposed to drive, got into one too. My father's car was involved with two of those accidents. The husband driving, and then the one that totalled it by my sister. It was on her way home from a drug run and she was speeding on a rain slicked street, jumped the curb, hit a fire hydrant and rammed into and destroyed a telephone pole. I can't believe her luck...and she's still alive. And still doing this shit. That totalled my dad's car. My mom's car's transmission was going bad...so that car went bye bye too. And that's only my parents cars. My sister totalled her car in another drug run in Newark (which came before all the others), then she got a bunch of speeding tickets...and caught with drugs in her car a few times (the car was marked)
HOW STUPID CAN YOU BE?!?!??!
So the only way we can have insurance at all is to say she doesn't live with us anymore. Which is why she's now living with her bf...but she comes over way too much for my liking...which would be never.
I can go on forever...I really can. My parents are finally STARTING to listen to me...realizing I'm not just being a child and trying to get her in trouble...but trying to cut away the cancer that she's become. I can't even begin to chronicle the attitude and the way our "family" is acting as a whole because of the stress she's put on us. My parents are again talking of divorce non stop. My dad yells at me for every and anything. For instance...the other day I brought up something in the news and he blew up at me. Cursed me out and everything. I just...blah...i've lost the desire to write about my sister now...lucky future me..I can give your eyes a break.
Oh ps...as I'm writing this...she drops off her soon t obe ex husband at some place....and then goes over to meet her boyfriend and his family at a restaurant for lunch. Well she was late...and when she gets there, they were done, and paying. They get into a fight...and the boyfriend freaks out...and starts screaming at her at the top of his lungs and curses her out and everything...and then one of the patrons calls the cops on him....
A few months earlier, he freaked out on my sister in similar fashion after she made him drive her home (my guess is cuz she was fucked up and high) and he started calling our house and cell phones and everything non stop...and she said she was going to get a restraining order on him...and I'm starting to worry at this point that he's some psycho and will become desperate (cuz he's illegal as I mentioned and one strike and he's out) and kill us all...so I say don't do that...and stop her from doing that...and now he gets the cops called on him...so we'll find out. She goes from one loser to the other...and she's a loser herself...she'll never learn. Ever.
Let's see..where should I leave myself off so I can come back years later and read this joy.....oh...let's start with the worst of it.....hell...let's just make a whole post about it.
My sister is still a hardcore drug user. I found out the extent of it not too long ago. She's apparently OD'd and died twice. She's so lucky when it comes to jail. She's been caught numerous times now...and she's managed to claw her way out. There's another court date coming though..it seemed she was going to squeeze out of it one more time with no jail...but then she got caught again...so we'll see what's going to happen this court date. There is no rock bottom to this girl. Dying twice isn't enough? What is? I fear the answer. But more than one of us assumes it might be the answer.
She's now divorcing her husband (did I mention she got married 7 months after high school?)...who is an illegal. Really cool though. I love the guy. He has been here for years and he's from Columbia, but his visa expired and he's been "not here" for a few years now. She really loved this guy quick...and I guess she eventually was going to marry him...but he had a close call and they decided to do it fast. Well it's a year later...and the guy (and her) moved into our basement and they STILL haven't managed to save up the fucking 1500 dollars just to get his legal papers. So he's married...in limbo...and no money to get his papers.
The plan was for her to move back home (she lived with him within a month after she graduated HS)...in our newly finished basement which we did half for her and half for house value (as it's been under talks for years) and save up money for a year then go out on her own and make a life for herself (and him). Living with her bf...she was great..when she visited the home...she was nice, calm, kind...sharing...doing good for herself. Well as soon as she moved back, she reverted to everything negative and bad and evil she did and was building up on her last stint here on her senior year. All of the bad things went back. And while a lot of it is now outward and to herself (and not us involved), and not at home anymore, it seemed to get worse. And they haven't saved a dime.
This time the husband is involved as he was the one caught with the drugs. And she was driving. But there was enough for two, let's just say.
What's even better (sorry future me, if I'm jumping around alot, follow along) is that for a few months now she's had a "Secret" boyfriend. Funny thing is...he's also Columbian...and also illegal. And it wasn't so secret. She was on the phone with him non-stop every day when she was here and then she was taking a lot of mystery trips without her Husband. Non stop on the phone though...and being a bitch every time someone said something to her or asked her to get off the phone...and she was stupid enough to go in the room next to mine where I heard her tell him how much she loved him and all that bs. Well in the end finally it came out and everyone knows. Her husband was actually found trying to cheat on her a long time ago...with a few women...but I don't think he ever did do anything...but still..it was bad enough...so some in my family feel this was her way of getting back..but now she's gone farther...and my father and I do not forgive it...and neither of us want to meet or know this other boyfriend (my father ignored the boyfriend completely when he came up to my father and offered his hand in greeting)...as my sister and her husband are finally over...he's still living here though..but she's with the boyfriend all the time in his house.
Funny thing is...we actually all wish to keep the husband as he's down to earth and even though he has his own problems..he doesn't explode like my sister...and does what he's asked. But he's the one my parents have "semi" kicked out. I guess they decided to let him stay till he can save up some money to get out. He's checked out some appartments and everything already...so at least he's moving.
So anyway...she's relapsed a bunch of times...and then got hooked on the weening drugs...(it's heroin that she's on btw), then back to the drug itself again. She's gotten evil all over...I hide my wallet. As I've found out some lovely things. She's now stolen every expensive piece of jewelry my mother has ever owned. She hid the last of it in a safety deposit box in a closet...and we now think my sister found it and stole it. And I find she's still trying to bring me down every time my parents get onto her.
OH! And I forgot! The car accidents! Oh man. I now have the longest lasting car. And that's only because I didn't let it in her hands. Our insurance company informed us we had over 7 accidents in 2 years and if they didn't kick us off the plan, it was going to go up. Well instead of calming down, my sister goes and gets in a few more accidents/tickets. I think she got in two accidents in and around Newark (most likely during a drug run), and a few here. And her husband who has no license and wasn't supposed to drive, got into one too. My father's car was involved with two of those accidents. The husband driving, and then the one that totalled it by my sister. It was on her way home from a drug run and she was speeding on a rain slicked street, jumped the curb, hit a fire hydrant and rammed into and destroyed a telephone pole. I can't believe her luck...and she's still alive. And still doing this shit. That totalled my dad's car. My mom's car's transmission was going bad...so that car went bye bye too. And that's only my parents cars. My sister totalled her car in another drug run in Newark (which came before all the others), then she got a bunch of speeding tickets...and caught with drugs in her car a few times (the car was marked)
HOW STUPID CAN YOU BE?!?!??!
So the only way we can have insurance at all is to say she doesn't live with us anymore. Which is why she's now living with her bf...but she comes over way too much for my liking...which would be never.
I can go on forever...I really can. My parents are finally STARTING to listen to me...realizing I'm not just being a child and trying to get her in trouble...but trying to cut away the cancer that she's become. I can't even begin to chronicle the attitude and the way our "family" is acting as a whole because of the stress she's put on us. My parents are again talking of divorce non stop. My dad yells at me for every and anything. For instance...the other day I brought up something in the news and he blew up at me. Cursed me out and everything. I just...blah...i've lost the desire to write about my sister now...lucky future me..I can give your eyes a break.
Oh ps...as I'm writing this...she drops off her soon t obe ex husband at some place....and then goes over to meet her boyfriend and his family at a restaurant for lunch. Well she was late...and when she gets there, they were done, and paying. They get into a fight...and the boyfriend freaks out...and starts screaming at her at the top of his lungs and curses her out and everything...and then one of the patrons calls the cops on him....
A few months earlier, he freaked out on my sister in similar fashion after she made him drive her home (my guess is cuz she was fucked up and high) and he started calling our house and cell phones and everything non stop...and she said she was going to get a restraining order on him...and I'm starting to worry at this point that he's some psycho and will become desperate (cuz he's illegal as I mentioned and one strike and he's out) and kill us all...so I say don't do that...and stop her from doing that...and now he gets the cops called on him...so we'll find out. She goes from one loser to the other...and she's a loser herself...she'll never learn. Ever.