'Coming Out' of hiding...

Nov 17, 2008 14:23

I have been very displeased with the gay community that has been going to churches and breaking crosses, ripping up the bible, and engaging in public displays of affection on the altars. This is not acceptable behavior and will not help lessen the division of peoples in this state.

Usually, I keep my life a secret, I do not share personal aspects about my life or orientation in a public setting, but I feel that it might be time to take a stand for the greater good.

It is no secret that I would be considered a homosexual and that I have had a significant other of the same gender for many years. The main reasons why I have never been open about my orientation is because of what it comes with. I have never identified with the gay culture or community. My orientation has never defined my personality and I have always surrounded myself with like-minded people, which the majority of homosexual males are not.

Also, I have been sexually involved with women before and I am not opposed to being with a woman, if I wanted to be, so I never wanted to label myself something.
Regardless, I see that it is very important to be honest about my lifestyle to shift the attention away from the sick acts that many gays have been commiting.

I understand their frustration, if I wanted to marry Viktor, I would like to have that right, so it being taken away does affect me, even if I never planned on it.
I do not agree with fundamentalists and am actually fearful of the power that christianity still has over uneducated populations.
Still, I do not act out in a negative fashion and hurt my cause.

As opposed, I continue to live in harmony with people of all orientations and beliefs. I show a different side of what it would mean for a gay couple to have the same civil rights of marriage, so that when people vote on these things they remember me, not the decadance that fills pride parades or stereotypes

You can still have scrouples and be gay. I am very conservative and treat my body like a temple, more so then the majority of "god-fearing" christians.
I have only had two male romances and physical with two men... never having sex, as far as what people consider.
My connection to my own gender is less physical and more my desire to know my partner. I love that, which is like myself. I am not an 'opposites attract' individual.

I hate being called something, i despise titles, unless it is evolutionist, of course. :-)

humans are just animals and like animals we have the same needs as all other living things and sexuality is just one of the many, so I am very peaceful with my own existence and hope that it shows in my actions.

Here is to equality, though I cannot expect much from a world that doesn't love itself.
When I see people harming animals or the environment, I realize that what I want for myself is very little compared to what I want for this beautiful planet.
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