...wow, I have commented way too many times to this entry. I'm just really worried about you two, Gwen. You seem to really care about this guy, but (to be frank, I'm sorry) you seem to be doing everything you can to drive him away. If you're sad some of the times, by all means, call him up and cry to him, but don't force yourself on him every single time when you're sad. He's got his own problems. And sometimes if he says or does something that upsets you, then say something about it. But honestly, Gwen, sometimes boys do things that hurt us and they really don't intend to. So sometimes, you've just got to let things go and forgive. (although what he's saying to you now is not something that you should just let go of.) And like I said earlier, his friends are his choice. And yes, he's being an asshole right now. I don't take that statement back. And you do both need some time apart. I don't take that back either. But you really need to stop being so...well, like he said, smothering. Because that's what it sounds like you're doing. It really sounds like you're smothering him.
I hate to be so blunt, but do you know what I'd hate more? Having you get dumped by someone that you really care about because of shit that you didn't even know was wrong at the time (because I really believe that you don't see any problem telling him who he should hang out with and stuff, but it IS a problem), realizing how much you love and need him, and then regretting what you did and wishing that you could take it all back. ...it's not fun.
Anyway, I won't comment on this entry anymore. I promise. I've just been wanting to say this for quite some time, and every time you update with something about Shane I want to say it even more, and I'm sick of not saying it. You continue on like this, doing exactly what you're doing, fighting with him so much, smothering him, and you're going to get dumped. That's it. End of story. I would bet a million dollars on it if I could. You've just got to choose whether keeping up what you're doing is worth losing the person you love over. And I really hope that it's not.
...wow, I have commented way too many times to this entry. I'm just really worried about you two, Gwen. You seem to really care about this guy, but (to be frank, I'm sorry) you seem to be doing everything you can to drive him away. If you're sad some of the times, by all means, call him up and cry to him, but don't force yourself on him every single time when you're sad. He's got his own problems. And sometimes if he says or does something that upsets you, then say something about it. But honestly, Gwen, sometimes boys do things that hurt us and they really don't intend to. So sometimes, you've just got to let things go and forgive. (although what he's saying to you now is not something that you should just let go of.) And like I said earlier, his friends are his choice. And yes, he's being an asshole right now. I don't take that statement back. And you do both need some time apart. I don't take that back either. But you really need to stop being so...well, like he said, smothering. Because that's what it sounds like you're doing. It really sounds like you're smothering him.
I hate to be so blunt, but do you know what I'd hate more? Having you get dumped by someone that you really care about because of shit that you didn't even know was wrong at the time (because I really believe that you don't see any problem telling him who he should hang out with and stuff, but it IS a problem), realizing how much you love and need him, and then regretting what you did and wishing that you could take it all back. ...it's not fun.
Anyway, I won't comment on this entry anymore. I promise. I've just been wanting to say this for quite some time, and every time you update with something about Shane I want to say it even more, and I'm sick of not saying it. You continue on like this, doing exactly what you're doing, fighting with him so much, smothering him, and you're going to get dumped. That's it. End of story. I would bet a million dollars on it if I could. You've just got to choose whether keeping up what you're doing is worth losing the person you love over. And I really hope that it's not.
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