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I have a problem. Not a big problem. A problem that shouldn't even exist, but it's my fault. Ok, I have been single for many years now. What's a girlfriend? I wouldn't know. So now I have this girl that I met at the comedy club. (It's Jen for those who don't know by now.) I like her and we've actually kissed a couple times, but I'm talking to her
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I'll try to make this short b/c my spacebar isn't working right, plus I'm a little buzzed right now... lol.
OK, you pretty much summed-up your problem at the conclusion of your entry:
"I guess I'm just really picky. That's my problem. I can find a fault in just about anyone. I'm looking for perfection and perfection isn't out there. It doesn't exist."
Exactly.
I think Jen is a really nice, intelligent, funny, and beautiful girl. Maybe she was being whiny tonight, but she's dealing with some very important issues (like having to leave her brother and her home), and even though she's just getting to know you, she likes you enough to be open about certain things and she wants to be affirmed by YOU. Instead it sounds like you were just trying to change the subject and ignore what she wanted to deal with in her conversation with you.
I'm not saying this in a mean way, but not everyone is going to cater to what you want or expect at any given time. She doesn't know what you expect, and even so, at certain phases in people's lives they can't be "happy-go-lucky" just because that's what you want to hear or be around. Like in the conversation she was obviously satirizing the whole "happy-go-lucky" thing by saying "how about those Eagles" or whatever she said.
So, what do I think? I think you should stick with her long enough to find out who she really is, beyond this one, single conversation where she was "being a total buzzkill."
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