Alot on my mind.
To Everyone Who Talks Crap or Don't Like Me:
Everyone needs to grow up. What I do with my life is up to me. It don't concern you or the choices you make for your own life so why get caught up in what I'm doing? Everyone lately seems to have enough stress and problems. Why worry about someone elses. And by stating that problem of someone elses doesn't make everything go away. Dont you think that, that person is pretty aware of what she is doing. It's the choices I am making for my life. Let me make my descions. and if they are bad, and cause me to get hurt. Then let me worry about it. Your life does not concern me. So, by you giving your opinion about mine doesn't change a thing about how I feel. I've never lived in your house, experienced the tears or smiles that you have shared..so I don't have any right to judge what you do or who you are. And...know this : People change. Sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. If that someone is your friend..im sure you know if that person is being true. Being a friend you can accept the changes..but it doesnt mean those changes will always be there. People go thru new things every day that change how they feel about the world around them and their life. Let them make the desicion if that choice is right for them. In 10 years..you won't be looking at my face in the mirror, asking yourself is this who I want to be? That's something I'm going to wory about. You can handle yourself. You don't need my life too.
It's about time shit cahnges around here.
Girls. Girls. Girls.
- now I know we love to be bitches sometimes. I know it and I'll admit to it. But here is something I cannot stand. Guys can have sex with 4 girls..and he is a PIMP. Girls on the other hand have sex with 4 guys and well she's a skank. To make it even better US girls are joinin in on the name calling. The VERY same names we hate to hear are the ones we are joinin in on and saying those hurtful words. We are girls. We all share the same body parts, and coming down to it. We all get hurt easier and are more emotional. and care more than we should. knowing this..why do we get against eachother?? Instead of dating the guy that another girl is madly in love with why not be by her side..and if this guy is wrong help her stand for something. Power in Numbers. We've become so low..that the word slut is used on a DAILY basis. We need to stick together and change this.
One more thought.. I was wondering if anyone knows or is/has been in a abusive family. You don't need to leave ur name if you don't like. But i was wondering if ya'll know..could you lemme know and let me know if these families have childern in them..
My mom was in a abusive relationship w/ my step father. and she is now filing for a divorce. Me n my brother have thought about things like this long and hard. What happens when that mother gets custody of the childern and she cant support them? What if the children are being abused..physically or mentally, who do they talk to? and, What can we do as victims ourselves to get people aware and change things. SASA( Siblings Against Spousal Abuse) I was just wondering if ya'll could gimme some input. Or if anyone would like to help n support this. I wanna try to get it started. Maybe write to Oprah. or someone...=) please and thank you.