Issues: Enumeration
1. First and foremost is the distortion issue, and accompanying lack of apologies.
2. Equivalency - I don't care what the rules are, I just want the same ones for both. I do not have that.
3. Victimhood - every time she's feeling hurt, every word or action becomes an attack. Makes communication impossible.
4. Intent - misreads my intent, and even if I explain what I was really feeling/thinking/saying, original perception set in stone (and conversely, if I misunderstand then it's my fault and no sympathy).
2. Equivalency - I don't care what the rules are, I just want the same ones for both. I do not have that.
3. Victimhood - every time she's feeling hurt, every word or action becomes an attack. Makes communication impossible.
4. Intent - misreads my intent, and even if I explain what I was really feeling/thinking/saying, original perception set in stone (and conversely, if I misunderstand then it's my fault and no sympathy).