The fact that you still have emotions for him, "being apart from him sucks", then it is better to part ways until those feelings subsides. I am not talking about love because that never fades, but the emotions behind the love -- that is the perception that you love him as a friend, not as a lover. So until you have transcended to that point then you two should seperate, physically, to seperate emotionally. In my personal experience, I tried to talk to an ex after breakup but he treated me the same way as we were in a relationship, so I had to cut it off because I do not want to mislead him to think that we were going to get back together and till this day I can not speak to him because he still has feelings for me. (Note: You know who I am talking about) But there are a few ex's I can still speak to without it being weird because he and I no longer look at each other the way we used to. So if you can't see him as just a friend, or vice versa, then you need to seperate to grow, if not, then its not so bad to talk to each other.
-Liza Mae
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