hanging with people she "made trouble with". for gods sake. you make it sound like shes having sex with them lon gafter shes gotten away from them. not all people are ass wipes. again... baseless accusations. people can still be friends after they break up. Im still good friends with my ex's mayb you dont have experience in that matter. and who needs new friends. You can still keep in touch with your current friends no problem. Some are just closer than others and they are always glad to have a visit. shes not losing touch with her friends. there simply jsut far away at the moment. but she still keeps in touch with them. hell.. she talks to most of them daily. its not exactly hard to keep in touch. so jsut because you dont have the resources to dial a phone number, dont assume that shes not talking to her friends for months at a time. wer eall still close to heather despite the fact that theres a lot of miles separating us. we all talk all the time and any chance we get. so things are like noone left at all. we just dont sleep within 5 miles of each other. but true friends keep in touch. and we are all keeping in touch very well. and those of us that are in range, han gout because we can and because were friends. so if you dont lik eit...
why don't you go fuck yourself, steve ? since you can do that and all.
and you're twisting words around again. so don't all point the huge ass finger at me. and you sound so certain that you know who i am. so if you do, then just say it. so i can prove you wrong.
and secondly, why are you being so anal about it. this is between heather and i, and then everyone randomly jumps into it after having it being brought to their attention. if heather can't stick up for herself, then let thats her problem. let her fight the battle on her own. maybe she needs to learn. no need for all you other people to be all omg rawr and attack.
i make perfectly good sense, so if you don't get it you must be thinking too hard. its not rocket science. its common sense. use your brain.
and i never said she was having a good 'ol time with anyone. you put those words down out of no where.
and lastly, i never assumed anything so why are you saying i did ? YOU are the ones who are assuming. nice job.
and i'm not that stupid to leave my name here. nice try.
Actions speak louder than words, and the fact that so many of my friends are ready to jump to my defense says a lot. However, I have no problem defending myself. I would love to. However, I'm not going to be so rude as to jump to possibly false accusions. If you want to talk to me about all the problems that you feel I have then grow a spine and IM me. If not then bug the fuck out of what you don't know.
well.... i did use that phrase today.... talking to JEN online... "your twisting words around again"... soo this isnt rocket science either.
and i dont believe that its just one person. Apparently a few people have a bone to pick with heather. and in my opion thats horse shit. heather came home. came to my party. hung out with people. now what the fuck is wrong with that. honestly. she wasnt stealing anyone away.
heather not stick up for herself. HA!. she can jsut fine. we just actually CARE about our friend and like to let ass wipes like yall kno that we are always there for heather. no matter how far away we are from her.
leave your name for christs sake. its just a name. that way. we can all yell at you for having things the wrong way. you can finally tell heather whats bothering you. even tho its something stupid and immature. and we can move on with our lives. i don tkno why you started this in the first place. your stupid. why exactly DID you start attackign heather. when all she does is come home to visit her friends. if you think thats a crime... then die.
Oh such lamentable venom! Can not we all simply love?sunny5mdOctober 5 2005, 03:33:15 UTC
You know, I believe it is semi-common knowledge that Heather and I have not been on particularly good terms for a while. To be honest, there have been no terms at all. However, even I feel compelled to comment here.
Last year, when I was at Cortland, I came home quite often, likely oftener than Heather. I understand much of what Heather is going through at college. A brief look back at my LJ entries from last fall will reveal similar themes of isolation and sadness. In fairness, Heather has had more to deal with than I did.
I admit with some embarrassment that, due to my animosity towards Heather, I have had decidedly little sympathy for her until now. The comments of "anonymous" have brought me straight around on this point. In particular the comment "you're ruining our lives" struck me straight to the bone. I recall hurtful comments of startlingly similar character.
No one should have to endure those remarks. Especially not from people who do not know and who, therefore, cannot understand the harsh realities of first year college experience and how disconcerting they can be. Suddenly the football games that one despised for years seem so very peaceful, calm, and familiar- everything the typical day at college is not. One should never have to endure those remarks, "anonymous," and I join the enormous number of people here in condemning your post emphatically, totally, unambiguously and without the slightest room for qualification.
Incidentally, “anonymous,” your grammar is appalling. I therefore helpfully offer that I believe the poster is in Mr. Nelson's Honors English class. Among all of my concerns should like to point out most of all that "Heather and me" is the appropriate construction in the instance above.
Oh- and Dom. Your post was delightful, and I do mean that in a most sincere way. The logical reasoning was quite good and it had a dramatic and thoroughly authoritative voice to it, and I commend you.
hanging with people she "made trouble with". for gods sake. you make it sound like shes having sex with them lon gafter shes gotten away from them. not all people are ass wipes. again... baseless accusations. people can still be friends after they break up. Im still good friends with my ex's mayb you dont have experience in that matter. and who needs new friends. You can still keep in touch with your current friends no problem. Some are just closer than others and they are always glad to have a visit. shes not losing touch with her friends. there simply jsut far away at the moment. but she still keeps in touch with them. hell.. she talks to most of them daily. its not exactly hard to keep in touch. so jsut because you dont have the resources to dial a phone number, dont assume that shes not talking to her friends for months at a time. wer eall still close to heather despite the fact that theres a lot of miles separating us. we all talk all the time and any chance we get. so things are like noone left at all. we just dont sleep within 5 miles of each other. but true friends keep in touch. and we are all keeping in touch very well. and those of us that are in range, han gout because we can and because were friends. so if you dont lik eit...
g- f-ck y--rs-lf
would you like to buy a vowel?!
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and you're twisting words around again. so don't all point the huge ass finger at me. and you sound so certain that you know who i am. so if you do, then just say it. so i can prove you wrong.
and secondly, why are you being so anal about it. this is between heather and i, and then everyone randomly jumps into it after having it being brought to their attention. if heather can't stick up for herself, then let thats her problem. let her fight the battle on her own. maybe she needs to learn. no need for all you other people to be all omg rawr and attack.
i make perfectly good sense, so if you don't get it you must be thinking too hard. its not rocket science. its common sense. use your brain.
and i never said she was having a good 'ol time with anyone. you put those words down out of no where.
and lastly, i never assumed anything so why are you saying i did ? YOU are the ones who are assuming. nice job.
and i'm not that stupid to leave my name here. nice try.
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and i dont believe that its just one person. Apparently a few people have a bone to pick with heather. and in my opion thats horse shit. heather came home. came to my party. hung out with people. now what the fuck is wrong with that. honestly. she wasnt stealing anyone away.
heather not stick up for herself. HA!. she can jsut fine. we just actually CARE about our friend and like to let ass wipes like yall kno that we are always there for heather. no matter how far away we are from her.
leave your name for christs sake. its just a name. that way. we can all yell at you for having things the wrong way. you can finally tell heather whats bothering you. even tho its something stupid and immature. and we can move on with our lives. i don tkno why you started this in the first place. your stupid. why exactly DID you start attackign heather. when all she does is come home to visit her friends. if you think thats a crime... then die.
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Last year, when I was at Cortland, I came home quite often, likely oftener than Heather. I understand much of what Heather is going through at college. A brief look back at my LJ entries from last fall will reveal similar themes of isolation and sadness. In fairness, Heather has had more to deal with than I did.
I admit with some embarrassment that, due to my animosity towards Heather, I have had decidedly little sympathy for her until now. The comments of "anonymous" have brought me straight around on this point. In particular the comment "you're ruining our lives" struck me straight to the bone. I recall hurtful comments of startlingly similar character.
No one should have to endure those remarks. Especially not from people who do not know and who, therefore, cannot understand the harsh realities of first year college experience and how disconcerting they can be. Suddenly the football games that one despised for years seem so very peaceful, calm, and familiar- everything the typical day at college is not. One should never have to endure those remarks, "anonymous," and I join the enormous number of people here in condemning your post emphatically, totally, unambiguously and without the slightest room for qualification.
Incidentally, “anonymous,” your grammar is appalling. I therefore helpfully offer that I believe the poster is in Mr. Nelson's Honors English class. Among all of my concerns should like to point out most of all that "Heather and me" is the appropriate construction in the instance above.
Oh- and Dom. Your post was delightful, and I do mean that in a most sincere way. The logical reasoning was quite good and it had a dramatic and thoroughly authoritative voice to it, and I commend you.
Courage, Heather.
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