Well there are several points that I would like to make.
The first is that seeing as how you could not even leave your name, you're post holds little weight for me.
Secondly, from your post I can assertain that you are in high school, and therefore have no idea what college is like, seeing as how you have not experienced it. Beyond that, you are not me, and therefore have no idea what I am dealing with and how it might differ from anyone else.
Let me make something clear, I am not comming home to hit on anyone, the two people that I see most when I am home is Matthias and Steve, both of whom want my company. Therefore, don't talk about things that you don't know about.
In addition, I have plenty of friends my own age. My closest being friends from high school that are now spread throughout New York State. In addition I also have a great group of friends at RPI. Just because I don't stay here on the weekends doesn't mean that I have no friends here.
Finally, it is obvious that you have no idea why I ended up comming home much more often that I ever planned. If you mother ever has a heart attack after your in college less than a month, and you're only 45 minutes away, by all means, please ignore her and stay at college partying it up. I however could not do that.
Therefore, before you judge me, perhaps you should know me and my situation.
so what ? now you're judging me & saying that i don't know what anything is like and all this other crap. oh yeahhhhhh.
well, for your own information, i have been there plenty of times. i know what its like when all your best friends suddenly vanish and you don't talk to them for several months. i know what that is like. and that is when instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you go out and make new friends and enjoy life while you still can.
times change, you just gotta get over it and accept it. move on.
and i'm sorry to hear about your mother, but honestly. when you come home and start hanging around with people you caused trouble with, people are gunna think things.
i dont want to see history repeat, so if you are absolutely positive you dont like him, then maybe act less excited. people won't think as much.
hanging with people she "made trouble with". for gods sake. you make it sound like shes having sex with them lon gafter shes gotten away from them. not all people are ass wipes. again... baseless accusations. people can still be friends after they break up. Im still good friends with my ex's mayb you dont have experience in that matter. and who needs new friends. You can still keep in touch with your current friends no problem. Some are just closer than others and they are always glad to have a visit. shes not losing touch with her friends. there simply jsut far away at the moment. but she still keeps in touch with them. hell.. she talks to most of them daily. its not exactly hard to keep in touch. so jsut because you dont have the resources to dial a phone number, dont assume that shes not talking to her friends for months at a time. wer eall still close to heather despite the fact that theres a lot of miles separating us. we all talk all the time and any chance we get. so things are like noone left at all. we just dont sleep within 5 miles of each other. but true friends keep in touch. and we are all keeping in touch very well. and those of us that are in range, han gout because we can and because were friends. so if you dont lik eit...
why don't you go fuck yourself, steve ? since you can do that and all.
and you're twisting words around again. so don't all point the huge ass finger at me. and you sound so certain that you know who i am. so if you do, then just say it. so i can prove you wrong.
and secondly, why are you being so anal about it. this is between heather and i, and then everyone randomly jumps into it after having it being brought to their attention. if heather can't stick up for herself, then let thats her problem. let her fight the battle on her own. maybe she needs to learn. no need for all you other people to be all omg rawr and attack.
i make perfectly good sense, so if you don't get it you must be thinking too hard. its not rocket science. its common sense. use your brain.
and i never said she was having a good 'ol time with anyone. you put those words down out of no where.
and lastly, i never assumed anything so why are you saying i did ? YOU are the ones who are assuming. nice job.
and i'm not that stupid to leave my name here. nice try.
Actions speak louder than words, and the fact that so many of my friends are ready to jump to my defense says a lot. However, I have no problem defending myself. I would love to. However, I'm not going to be so rude as to jump to possibly false accusions. If you want to talk to me about all the problems that you feel I have then grow a spine and IM me. If not then bug the fuck out of what you don't know.
well.... i did use that phrase today.... talking to JEN online... "your twisting words around again"... soo this isnt rocket science either.
and i dont believe that its just one person. Apparently a few people have a bone to pick with heather. and in my opion thats horse shit. heather came home. came to my party. hung out with people. now what the fuck is wrong with that. honestly. she wasnt stealing anyone away.
heather not stick up for herself. HA!. she can jsut fine. we just actually CARE about our friend and like to let ass wipes like yall kno that we are always there for heather. no matter how far away we are from her.
leave your name for christs sake. its just a name. that way. we can all yell at you for having things the wrong way. you can finally tell heather whats bothering you. even tho its something stupid and immature. and we can move on with our lives. i don tkno why you started this in the first place. your stupid. why exactly DID you start attackign heather. when all she does is come home to visit her friends. if you think thats a crime... then die.
Oh such lamentable venom! Can not we all simply love?sunny5mdOctober 5 2005, 03:33:15 UTC
You know, I believe it is semi-common knowledge that Heather and I have not been on particularly good terms for a while. To be honest, there have been no terms at all. However, even I feel compelled to comment here.
Last year, when I was at Cortland, I came home quite often, likely oftener than Heather. I understand much of what Heather is going through at college. A brief look back at my LJ entries from last fall will reveal similar themes of isolation and sadness. In fairness, Heather has had more to deal with than I did.
I admit with some embarrassment that, due to my animosity towards Heather, I have had decidedly little sympathy for her until now. The comments of "anonymous" have brought me straight around on this point. In particular the comment "you're ruining our lives" struck me straight to the bone. I recall hurtful comments of startlingly similar character.
No one should have to endure those remarks. Especially not from people who do not know and who, therefore, cannot understand the harsh realities of first year college experience and how disconcerting they can be. Suddenly the football games that one despised for years seem so very peaceful, calm, and familiar- everything the typical day at college is not. One should never have to endure those remarks, "anonymous," and I join the enormous number of people here in condemning your post emphatically, totally, unambiguously and without the slightest room for qualification.
Incidentally, “anonymous,” your grammar is appalling. I therefore helpfully offer that I believe the poster is in Mr. Nelson's Honors English class. Among all of my concerns should like to point out most of all that "Heather and me" is the appropriate construction in the instance above.
Oh- and Dom. Your post was delightful, and I do mean that in a most sincere way. The logical reasoning was quite good and it had a dramatic and thoroughly authoritative voice to it, and I commend you.
OK who ever you are you have no business talking to heather that way. By the Way this is Dom Undoubtly the subject of your heated arguement.
If you feel in away way shape or form that heather is violating some kind of code please shut up. Heather is free to come back if she wants to.
Secondly I have some sneaking suspicions to who may have written this and I am not afraid to state them aloud.
The Nature of this leads me to believe that Jen Luft is behind this. I hereby state that ever since I had open friendship towards Heather Bowman she has been against it, the verbal acknowledgment came from her very mouth (May I cite Daniel Powers 7th period biology class or our sophomore year). She has always disliked Heather for some reason that is beyond my reasoning.
Whether she is acting alone or at the bidding or another is yet unclear to me. Although If indeed its is by the latter (who for the sake of preserving my integrity from further impuning will remain anonymous for now), my fury shall be swift and terrible on both parties involved.
Heather is my dearest friend and If, as we believe, the friend in question of heathers supposed romantic affections is myself, whom you count amongst your friends, than I do not wish to be involved with scum such as you.
Summation of our arguement against Jen Luft and Coconspirators
1) Jen does not like Heather and has shown this for an extended period of time 2)Justifies this Irational thinking by saying Heather has taken her friends 3) Is emotionally unstable and shallow 4)Has history of obcessive behavior (May I cite the Valiante Incident 4 years ago, The Boris and Marsh Incidents, and an impending obcession with *Unnamed* marching band members) 5) History of Unrequited love has led to above mentioned problems, although I dare say this was not expected in said *affairs of romance* 6)Has History of twisting words
If our suspicions are true, which we hold beyond the shadow of a doubt, then the state of your mind is more tragic then we can ever hold to believe.
Again I state, that Heather and our relationship is that of the closest friendship. Your childish attempts to incite anger in us has worked, and yet so does throwing rocks at a hornets nest. And now petty child you must now face our sting. your obvious jealousy of Heather is blatently obvious and you should really consider therapy for your problem.
The first is that seeing as how you could not even leave your name, you're post holds little weight for me.
Secondly, from your post I can assertain that you are in high school, and therefore have no idea what college is like, seeing as how you have not experienced it. Beyond that, you are not me, and therefore have no idea what I am dealing with and how it might differ from anyone else.
Let me make something clear, I am not comming home to hit on anyone, the two people that I see most when I am home is Matthias and Steve, both of whom want my company. Therefore, don't talk about things that you don't know about.
In addition, I have plenty of friends my own age. My closest being friends from high school that are now spread throughout New York State. In addition I also have a great group of friends at RPI. Just because I don't stay here on the weekends doesn't mean that I have no friends here.
Finally, it is obvious that you have no idea why I ended up comming home much more often that I ever planned. If you mother ever has a heart attack after your in college less than a month, and you're only 45 minutes away, by all means, please ignore her and stay at college partying it up. I however could not do that.
Therefore, before you judge me, perhaps you should know me and my situation.
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well, for your own information, i have been there plenty of times. i know what its like when all your best friends suddenly vanish and you don't talk to them for several months. i know what that is like. and that is when instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you go out and make new friends and enjoy life while you still can.
times change, you just gotta get over it and accept it. move on.
and i'm sorry to hear about your mother, but honestly. when you come home and start hanging around with people you caused trouble with, people are gunna think things.
i dont want to see history repeat, so if you are absolutely positive you dont like him, then maybe act less excited. people won't think as much.
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hanging with people she "made trouble with". for gods sake. you make it sound like shes having sex with them lon gafter shes gotten away from them. not all people are ass wipes. again... baseless accusations. people can still be friends after they break up. Im still good friends with my ex's mayb you dont have experience in that matter. and who needs new friends. You can still keep in touch with your current friends no problem. Some are just closer than others and they are always glad to have a visit. shes not losing touch with her friends. there simply jsut far away at the moment. but she still keeps in touch with them. hell.. she talks to most of them daily. its not exactly hard to keep in touch. so jsut because you dont have the resources to dial a phone number, dont assume that shes not talking to her friends for months at a time. wer eall still close to heather despite the fact that theres a lot of miles separating us. we all talk all the time and any chance we get. so things are like noone left at all. we just dont sleep within 5 miles of each other. but true friends keep in touch. and we are all keeping in touch very well. and those of us that are in range, han gout because we can and because were friends. so if you dont lik eit...
g- f-ck y--rs-lf
would you like to buy a vowel?!
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and you're twisting words around again. so don't all point the huge ass finger at me. and you sound so certain that you know who i am. so if you do, then just say it. so i can prove you wrong.
and secondly, why are you being so anal about it. this is between heather and i, and then everyone randomly jumps into it after having it being brought to their attention. if heather can't stick up for herself, then let thats her problem. let her fight the battle on her own. maybe she needs to learn. no need for all you other people to be all omg rawr and attack.
i make perfectly good sense, so if you don't get it you must be thinking too hard. its not rocket science. its common sense. use your brain.
and i never said she was having a good 'ol time with anyone. you put those words down out of no where.
and lastly, i never assumed anything so why are you saying i did ? YOU are the ones who are assuming. nice job.
and i'm not that stupid to leave my name here. nice try.
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and i dont believe that its just one person. Apparently a few people have a bone to pick with heather. and in my opion thats horse shit. heather came home. came to my party. hung out with people. now what the fuck is wrong with that. honestly. she wasnt stealing anyone away.
heather not stick up for herself. HA!. she can jsut fine. we just actually CARE about our friend and like to let ass wipes like yall kno that we are always there for heather. no matter how far away we are from her.
leave your name for christs sake. its just a name. that way. we can all yell at you for having things the wrong way. you can finally tell heather whats bothering you. even tho its something stupid and immature. and we can move on with our lives. i don tkno why you started this in the first place. your stupid. why exactly DID you start attackign heather. when all she does is come home to visit her friends. if you think thats a crime... then die.
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Last year, when I was at Cortland, I came home quite often, likely oftener than Heather. I understand much of what Heather is going through at college. A brief look back at my LJ entries from last fall will reveal similar themes of isolation and sadness. In fairness, Heather has had more to deal with than I did.
I admit with some embarrassment that, due to my animosity towards Heather, I have had decidedly little sympathy for her until now. The comments of "anonymous" have brought me straight around on this point. In particular the comment "you're ruining our lives" struck me straight to the bone. I recall hurtful comments of startlingly similar character.
No one should have to endure those remarks. Especially not from people who do not know and who, therefore, cannot understand the harsh realities of first year college experience and how disconcerting they can be. Suddenly the football games that one despised for years seem so very peaceful, calm, and familiar- everything the typical day at college is not. One should never have to endure those remarks, "anonymous," and I join the enormous number of people here in condemning your post emphatically, totally, unambiguously and without the slightest room for qualification.
Incidentally, “anonymous,” your grammar is appalling. I therefore helpfully offer that I believe the poster is in Mr. Nelson's Honors English class. Among all of my concerns should like to point out most of all that "Heather and me" is the appropriate construction in the instance above.
Oh- and Dom. Your post was delightful, and I do mean that in a most sincere way. The logical reasoning was quite good and it had a dramatic and thoroughly authoritative voice to it, and I commend you.
Courage, Heather.
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If you feel in away way shape or form that heather is violating some kind of code please shut up. Heather is free to come back if she wants to.
Secondly I have some sneaking suspicions to who may have written this and I am not afraid to state them aloud.
The Nature of this leads me to believe that Jen Luft is behind this. I hereby state that ever since I had open friendship towards Heather Bowman she has been against it, the verbal acknowledgment came from her very mouth (May I cite Daniel Powers 7th period biology class or our sophomore year). She has always disliked Heather for some reason that is beyond my reasoning.
Whether she is acting alone or at the bidding or another is yet unclear to me. Although If indeed its is by the latter (who for the sake of preserving my integrity from further impuning will remain anonymous for now), my fury shall be swift and terrible on both parties involved.
Heather is my dearest friend and If, as we believe, the friend in question of heathers supposed romantic affections is myself, whom you count amongst your friends, than I do not wish to be involved with scum such as you.
Summation of our arguement against Jen Luft and Coconspirators
1) Jen does not like Heather and has shown this for an extended period of time
2)Justifies this Irational thinking by saying Heather has taken her friends
3) Is emotionally unstable and shallow
4)Has history of obcessive behavior (May I cite the Valiante Incident 4 years ago, The Boris and Marsh Incidents, and an impending obcession with *Unnamed* marching band members)
5) History of Unrequited love has led to above mentioned problems, although I dare say this was not expected in said *affairs of romance*
6)Has History of twisting words
If our suspicions are true, which we hold beyond the shadow of a doubt, then the state of your mind is more tragic then we can ever hold to believe.
Again I state, that Heather and our relationship is that of the closest friendship. Your childish attempts to incite anger in us has worked, and yet so does throwing rocks at a hornets nest. And now petty child you must now face our sting. your obvious jealousy of Heather is blatently obvious and you should really consider therapy for your problem.
Love,
Dominick M Dickerson
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