I don't know what to do....

[dawlhaus]

Ok so I thought things were going great but I don't think so. I mean I'm settling. I should never settle right. I know I shouldn't be writing this on here I should actually be talking to someone about it but really I don't know what to do. I jumped head first into a lake of freezing water and now I'm drowing from being frost bitten and I fear

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This is a shocker!

[c_money]

No, you should never settle. Especially now that your life is going so well.
There really isn't an easy way to break up with someone, but you gotta do what you gotta do. But I suggest that you really, REALLY think about everything, and talk to as many friends as you can about this. Sometimes, especially when you're more confused than anything, a friends input is worth more than gold. ESPECIALLY when it comes to boys.
In theory, you shouldn't be bored in a relationship.. but it happens to the best of us. I was bored with Josh for a good week or two, but I just waited it out because I knew that it was worth it to do so.
Are you really, genuinely missing this person, or do you think it might just have to do with the fact that you're doubting the relationship with Liam? Before you do anything, make sure you know what you want. I've screwed up some pretty great things with some pretty great boys because I "thought" I wanted to be with someone else, but as it turns out.. it wasn't what I wanted at all.

I think you should talk to Liam about everything. It might be awkward & uncomfortable to bring up.. but I think you need to. This is the first pretty serious relationship you've had in a while, and maybe you're just not ready for it at all, or maybe you're just not ready to be this serious this fast.

Although I think he's a pretty nice boy, I don't think you should dwell too much on "tearing his little world apart". I know that sounds bad, but seriously.. you have to do what makes you happy. I'm sorry that you're going through this right now, and I hope everything works out for the best. And remember, if you ever need to talk, you can call me.
<3

Re: This is a shocker!

[dawlhaus]

Thanks courtney I needed that. I actually called haley cuz I needed to hear her. I think a lot of this also stems from not being able to talk to her as much lately with what i've been feeling. I know I should talk to Liam first but its just alot easier to rehearse with your gals ya know. And yes I know its a shocker but there are some things I didn't want to put in here we'll chat perhaps at motown tmw night???