Dec 08, 2004 15:06
if you are looking for someone to blame, this speaks volumes:
"the way that parents influence their children most deeply, however, is by exmaple. children instinctively observe the choices their parents make, the freedoms and pleasures the allow themselves, the talents they develop, the abilities they ignore, and the rules they follow."
--- Harville Hendrix
yup, now it all makes sense.