What is and should never be...

[davalian]

So what do you do when the person you care most for in the world, in my case Jess, hates someone that was once considered your closest friend? What do you do when you've severed ties to your once closest friend and find that part of you is missing? How do you cope with the loss of someone?

I've lost family before, and maybe it's just me, but, I didn

Comments

[weatherman2111]

Unless there's something more about this friend that you haven't said, or something between the two of them that they haven't told you about, this seems really weird and a bit unlike the Jess I know. I take it trying to talk things out isn't much of an option? There's a big difference between respecting that your partner likes someone that you don't and balancing that out with said partner still being their own person and trying to control what your partner does.

Has Jess ever told you why she doesn't like this girl? There's gotta be more than "I just don't like her". That's not an answer.

[davalian]

This girl is pretty much as selfish and "princess" as you can get. Everyone should be helping her all the time, and no one else. She's also the one who was on my shit list about two weeks ago, and while she's not back and never will be back to best friend status, she's still a friend.

[weatherman2111]

Ohh, her. I can actually kinda see Jess's point in that she strikes me as a very poisonous person to be around. Obviously, that's your choice to make, but I know I wouldn't be able to stay friends with someone who will not help themselves and I probably wouldn't be exceptionally happy if any potential SO that I ever have in the future did so.

[killing_kittens]

It depends on why they don't like them

[davalian]

-patpat- Luna was my old cat, that's not the person in question. :P

And no, there is no hitting on in either direction in regards to this person. Any even hint of things like that were more than two years ago and long since dead.

[killing_kittens]

Then just tell Jess to chillax, b.

[jbkmdx]

Easier said than done, my friend.

[kateball12]

It is hard balancing friends and SOs. There have been a few friends of Mike's that I haven't liked, luckily I know he won't stray and I have nothing to worry about.

I feel honored that Jess likes me. And it is 2 months exactly from today!

How's your planning going?

[jbkmdx]

I don't actually understand why she doesn't like her. I mean, I know the incident that occurred, but was that the straw that broke the camel's back? She always seemed more than happy to hang with her since she doesn't hang out with a lot of females.