Flirty Boyfriend
Do you think it's too much to ask that your boyfriend of two years stop flirting with someone you hate with the fiery burning of ten thousand suns?
This person was one of the first people to befriend him when he started his job two years ago... we got together literally two weeks after he started. I know he had some interest in this girl (she was/ ( Read more... )
This person was one of the first people to befriend him when he started his job two years ago... we got together literally two weeks after he started. I know he had some interest in this girl (she was/ ( Read more... )
Guys and girls usually cannot be JUST friends. At some point, feelings on someone's side develops, and it takes a lot of effort to keep the friendship alive while discouraging the feelings and et cetera et cetera.
This is not your situation. Your boyfriend and this girl were never JUST friends; there has always been some attraction involved in the relationship. Your intuition is right. As long as he is talking to her, he's essentially leading her on. She is obviously not just interested in his friendship. What point is there to be friends with a girl who constantly tries to break apart your relationship? I also think that if I found that kind of text message in my boyfriend's phone, I would be pissed to shit. He's also the "flirty type". You know where that got him? Cheating. Your boyfriend can't even pull that "it's just like when you tell your friends..." spiel, because he's not friends with this girl. Guys and girls are usually NOT just friends.
You will have to decide how much of a big deal this is to you, because it sounds like he is very invested in the attention that she's giving him. Perhaps he doesn't understand that girls are catty bitches who would enjoy nothing more than taking someone else's boyfriend just because it somehow means they were better than the original girl. Perhaps he doesn't understand that this has very little to do with him and everything to do with the animosity between this girl and you.
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I completely disagree with this. Completely.
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Usually is key here. I agree with fremescence. Besides the fact that they are not JUST friends and have already admitted interest in each other, there is no way they can put all that aside and now be JUST friends. No way.
I think he is being just as disrespectful as this girl if he continues that way.
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