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This may not be comm appropriate, because it's not about dating, but it involves two friends of mine who are a couple. If it's not okay just let me know and I'll delete. The story is also kind of long, for which I apologize.
Saturday night, I had plans to hang out with my friend, A. A's girlfriend of two years, B(also my friend), was supposed to hang out with her best friend. B was travelling the next morning and would not see A for almost a week.
The three of us had lunch and saw a movie together, and then A was going to take B to her friend's house and then the two of us were supposed to go have some drinks and hang out. On the way back, B got a phone call to let her know that her friend was cancelling on her.
So, the three of us went to A's house together, and he made us some drinks. I get a bit tipsy and go to the bathroom. When I got back, A said, "Can you give us a minute?" B wass quiet and looking down. So I took a walk around the block. It was about 8 PM. After I'd been outside for about 10 minutes, a man on A's street approached me and started to harrass me (Hey baby, what you doing tonight, do you stay out here? My name's ____, what's you name? What are you doing tonight?). I walked quickly back into A's house.
A asked to see me alone in his back hallway. He said that B was highly upset and had wanted that night to be about the two of them, but just 'couldn't tell him' until right then. I asked if he wanted me to go, and he said, "Could you?"
I couldn't drive because I was drunk, and I didn't want to walk outside to take the train, because I was scared of that guy. So I called my roommate who came to pick me up. I went to the living room to tell A and B that my roomie was on his way and sit down and wait for him, but A stood up and said, "Okay, so we'll tell you when he gets here?" So apparently, I was to wait in the hallway, which I did. My roomate picked me up without incedent, and when I left B gave me a big smile and a hug.
What I want to know is, is it weird that I am upset by this? I haven't talked to B since that night (like I said, she is travelling), and A apologized profusely to me on Sunday. I still have these moments where I find myself getting mad, and I'm not sure why. I think I might be kind of traumatized by that creepy guy, but most of my angry thoughts seem to be directed at A and B.
Saturday night, I had plans to hang out with my friend, A. A's girlfriend of two years, B(also my friend), was supposed to hang out with her best friend. B was travelling the next morning and would not see A for almost a week.
The three of us had lunch and saw a movie together, and then A was going to take B to her friend's house and then the two of us were supposed to go have some drinks and hang out. On the way back, B got a phone call to let her know that her friend was cancelling on her.
So, the three of us went to A's house together, and he made us some drinks. I get a bit tipsy and go to the bathroom. When I got back, A said, "Can you give us a minute?" B wass quiet and looking down. So I took a walk around the block. It was about 8 PM. After I'd been outside for about 10 minutes, a man on A's street approached me and started to harrass me (Hey baby, what you doing tonight, do you stay out here? My name's ____, what's you name? What are you doing tonight?). I walked quickly back into A's house.
A asked to see me alone in his back hallway. He said that B was highly upset and had wanted that night to be about the two of them, but just 'couldn't tell him' until right then. I asked if he wanted me to go, and he said, "Could you?"
I couldn't drive because I was drunk, and I didn't want to walk outside to take the train, because I was scared of that guy. So I called my roommate who came to pick me up. I went to the living room to tell A and B that my roomie was on his way and sit down and wait for him, but A stood up and said, "Okay, so we'll tell you when he gets here?" So apparently, I was to wait in the hallway, which I did. My roomate picked me up without incedent, and when I left B gave me a big smile and a hug.
What I want to know is, is it weird that I am upset by this? I haven't talked to B since that night (like I said, she is travelling), and A apologized profusely to me on Sunday. I still have these moments where I find myself getting mad, and I'm not sure why. I think I might be kind of traumatized by that creepy guy, but most of my angry thoughts seem to be directed at A and B.