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[fredijean]

My first posting to this place, and boy do I need the help. There should be a book for this sort of thing (there probably is).

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[luminate]

I just hope that you guys can remain as good as friends as before. I would say just try to be yourself -- whatever that entailed before the news -- and see where that gets you.

My best guy friend and I went through a dating period from March until early June, and after hanging out on a Thursday (we're LDR), it felt really awkward and stuff. I had sent him an email talking to him about it, and then he never messaged me. Figured from all the hurt and stuff... but then I messaged him two days afterwards, and he claims he never received the email. He said we should just be friends as well, which is what my email was talking about, so it was good that it was mutual.

But with the same guy, I had feelings for him for two years before I told him my senior year of high school. He didn't reciprocate the feelings at the time, so I just went about my merry way after a very horrible conversation we had.

But yeah -- I know this isn't really giving you much hope, but now my best friend and I are slowly getting back to where we used to be. We talked last night, and actually had a little bit of a conversation. :)

Good luck with your guy. I'm sure everything will work out wonderfully!