Bad Weekend?
*sigh*... For some reason I just don't know how to start this post lol.
This weekend some things were said to me that made me realize for the first time how hard it's gonna be to be a lolita. I mean I can take the stares I get when I go into town, but with family I hoped they would have been a bit more understanding? But I guess not. For starters, I was wearing a casual shirt, gray with pink hearts and a pink castle on it, and a black skirt. I had gotten some socks that were gray with bright pink dots on them. Before we went out to eat, my grandmother said that they just didn't look good together. It really hurt. I know that the socks didn't REALLY match, but till she said that, I felt very pretty! And I was just so happy to be wearing a new pair of socks and shoes that I had gotten as an early B-Day gift. Maybe I took it the wrong way, but even when I put on just a gray pair of socks, I could still tell that she didn't like anything 'bout what I was wearing. And there have been a few other things she has said to me 'bout my parents, and maybe I'm still hurting from that. But it just isn't her place to say those things! My Mom was just fine with what I was wearing, my Mom said I looked cute. I guess right now I should say something like its just, 'Water under the Bridge', but I can't!
I guess what I'm trying to say is, try to be kind to others. No matter how different they are, everyone has feelings! : )
Sorry 'bout complaining, thou I do feel better now that I got it all out! : )
This weekend some things were said to me that made me realize for the first time how hard it's gonna be to be a lolita. I mean I can take the stares I get when I go into town, but with family I hoped they would have been a bit more understanding? But I guess not. For starters, I was wearing a casual shirt, gray with pink hearts and a pink castle on it, and a black skirt. I had gotten some socks that were gray with bright pink dots on them. Before we went out to eat, my grandmother said that they just didn't look good together. It really hurt. I know that the socks didn't REALLY match, but till she said that, I felt very pretty! And I was just so happy to be wearing a new pair of socks and shoes that I had gotten as an early B-Day gift. Maybe I took it the wrong way, but even when I put on just a gray pair of socks, I could still tell that she didn't like anything 'bout what I was wearing. And there have been a few other things she has said to me 'bout my parents, and maybe I'm still hurting from that. But it just isn't her place to say those things! My Mom was just fine with what I was wearing, my Mom said I looked cute. I guess right now I should say something like its just, 'Water under the Bridge', but I can't!
I guess what I'm trying to say is, try to be kind to others. No matter how different they are, everyone has feelings! : )
Sorry 'bout complaining, thou I do feel better now that I got it all out! : )