I am Married to an Idiot......
So here I am playing away on my computer while listening to the news and this story comes on about the Saskatchewan court ruling upholding Same sex couples rights to Marry. http://www.xtra.ca/public/Vancouver/SK_court_upholds_samesex_couples_rights-9619.aspx
From my left in front of the TV I hear "uh oh" from my husband. So I ask him "What do you mean by that?" He tells me that it is going to cause a whole lot of trouble. I ask him how will this cause trouble and he tells me that "well because of this ruling that (where he works) they will have to start getting bunk houses for same sex couples and having gay areas". So I ask him "Well how the hell would that affect you?" and he says "it just does."
"So in reality it will have no affect on your life at all"
"Yes it will, there will be gay people up (where he works)"
"aaaand you don't think there are gay people up there now?"
"maybe, but I don't have to know it"
and the conversation broke down from there, with me asking how it could possibly affect him and him saying in turn that it did and then that it didn't and saying that he doesn't care because if all the men in Camp were gay that it would leave all the women for him.
Trying to redirect the conversation by pissing me off.
I have been married to this man for 14 years and never knew how unbelievably Homophobic he is.
I am so glad I don't need a divorce. I just have to wait for a couple more weeks and he goes back to work for 8 months.
From my left in front of the TV I hear "uh oh" from my husband. So I ask him "What do you mean by that?" He tells me that it is going to cause a whole lot of trouble. I ask him how will this cause trouble and he tells me that "well because of this ruling that (where he works) they will have to start getting bunk houses for same sex couples and having gay areas". So I ask him "Well how the hell would that affect you?" and he says "it just does."
"So in reality it will have no affect on your life at all"
"Yes it will, there will be gay people up (where he works)"
"aaaand you don't think there are gay people up there now?"
"maybe, but I don't have to know it"
and the conversation broke down from there, with me asking how it could possibly affect him and him saying in turn that it did and then that it didn't and saying that he doesn't care because if all the men in Camp were gay that it would leave all the women for him.
Trying to redirect the conversation by pissing me off.
I have been married to this man for 14 years and never knew how unbelievably Homophobic he is.
I am so glad I don't need a divorce. I just have to wait for a couple more weeks and he goes back to work for 8 months.