Comments | darkwaver: It's the First Again... you could almost set your watch by this!! =)

darkwaver

It's the First Again... you could almost set your watch by this!! =)

Jul 01, 2014 00:00

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therapy, monthly purge of secrets, phobias, introspection, sex, decisions, depression, anxiety

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anonymous July 1 2014, 03:10:12 UTC

I have a really big huge problem this time Dinah. Can I email you in private?

darkwaver July 1 2014, 03:12:57 UTC

Of course. Do you need my email address?!? If not... go ahead, I will be waiting.

anonymous July 1 2014, 03:28:57 UTC

You have been helping me with the same problem for months and I keep doing the same shit!

It's like I am not controlling myself. Stuff just happens.

darkwaver July 1 2014, 04:23:57 UTC

Okay.. I am SURE you know that the definition of "insanity" is doing the same things/actions repeatedly yet expecting a different result/outcome.

By saying things like: you can't help it or you can't control it means one of two things IS happening.

A)You are being a juvenile in not wanting to own up or take responsibility for what you HAVE CHOSEN to do.

or

B) You TRULY can NOT control them, in which case, you may be truly insane, if you SERIOUSLY and HONESTLY cannot "control" your actions.

So.. which is it.... are you CLINICALLY INSANE?!?! Or just being weak and not wanting to own up to things you have done.

Think hard before you answer, even if you only answer the person in the mirror.

I will still be here if you want to talk more.

Di

anonymous July 1 2014, 05:10:40 UTC

i had an abortion two months ago without consulting my boyfriend. i just found out he is pro-LIFE. he is totally about everything else. i planned on telling him but now. god! can't a girl have a secret or two?

Can a Girl Have a Secret?? darkwaver July 1 2014, 05:18:43 UTC

Yes. Everybody is entitled to a few things that are for just themselves.

As for your issue.. I don't know how long you have been with him, your ages, if you plan on making him your husband.... and if so, would you want a man that would be so dismissive or angry about what you did to YOUR body?! You did not ask for advice, and though the question was rhetorical, yes Darling.. everybody is allowed to have their own private things in life.

anonymous July 1 2014, 05:28:23 UTC

I made false allegations up in court to get custody. I'm a horrible mother and don't deserve to even be one.

anonymous July 1 2014, 05:41:06 UTC

i worry that my mom with die beafore my stepdad who is younger than her because then everything will go to him and he will leave everything of my moms to his retarded kids. if he dies first, everything my late father built-up in his lifetime and everything of my mothers goes to me, not my stepfather who i think mooches off her and his adult kids. they have only been married a couple years. he and his grown kids shouldn't get my mother's estate especially since half was left to her when my dad died in 2010. their estate should go to my and my son not some people that never even met my father! the thought of all them wrecking my late father's house and spending my mother's money makes me want to puke!