Revealing the darker side of men...
Things men tend to hide if they're actually hiding:
#1 - Do they own a cell phone & a per-min card?
Reason: Sometimes men know that the cell phone records every inbound and outbound call somewhere, so they use a calling card that they can purchase to make phone calls they don't want recorded.
#2 - Are your bank accounts seperate to the point of not being able to review the monthly statements?
Reason: Men will hide their finances. Withdrawing hundreds of dollars but only having receipts for part of it. Occasionally, this is a good thing when V-Day, B-Day, or Xmas is coming up because he may be picking something up for you, but if he's hiding it, it can be bad.
#3 - Alternative Email/Live Journal Accounts -
I've had more than one female friend talk to me about how she lost a guy because he had created a seperate email account that she didn't have access to. Mind you, it means that the guy can read her email, and vice-versa, but if he's got something hidden, it's never a good sign.
#4 - Hiding women from women -
Men play a very bad game of double-dribbling. They will tend to date one person, then another, without having the two meet, and saying to both of them equates of love and affections. Men don't like to admit that they're doing it, but they do.
And that's a couple of things that men tend to hide from women. Of course, in a full communicative relationship, one tends to avoid these hidden things because well...you trust and love your partner.
Reason for this post? I got asked a couple of things from a couple of different people. Am I breaking some unwritten code? Nope. I figure I'd be letting people know this anyway. If you've got a guy who isn't capable of being honorable enough to tell you these things yourself, then maybe finding another guy is a good thing.
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#1 - Do they own a cell phone & a per-min card?
Reason: Sometimes men know that the cell phone records every inbound and outbound call somewhere, so they use a calling card that they can purchase to make phone calls they don't want recorded.
#2 - Are your bank accounts seperate to the point of not being able to review the monthly statements?
Reason: Men will hide their finances. Withdrawing hundreds of dollars but only having receipts for part of it. Occasionally, this is a good thing when V-Day, B-Day, or Xmas is coming up because he may be picking something up for you, but if he's hiding it, it can be bad.
#3 - Alternative Email/Live Journal Accounts -
I've had more than one female friend talk to me about how she lost a guy because he had created a seperate email account that she didn't have access to. Mind you, it means that the guy can read her email, and vice-versa, but if he's got something hidden, it's never a good sign.
#4 - Hiding women from women -
Men play a very bad game of double-dribbling. They will tend to date one person, then another, without having the two meet, and saying to both of them equates of love and affections. Men don't like to admit that they're doing it, but they do.
And that's a couple of things that men tend to hide from women. Of course, in a full communicative relationship, one tends to avoid these hidden things because well...you trust and love your partner.
Reason for this post? I got asked a couple of things from a couple of different people. Am I breaking some unwritten code? Nope. I figure I'd be letting people know this anyway. If you've got a guy who isn't capable of being honorable enough to tell you these things yourself, then maybe finding another guy is a good thing.
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