Flash to Anime Background: "One Final Stand" =P (Edited approx: 20 times for minor changes)

Oct 14, 2003 20:17

Alright to put this simply, you were both wrong. Both of you need to quit it with blaming everything on the other whether it be through a journal or speaking through other friends. What kind of "friendship" is this that you have? Friends are supposed to be understanding of one another, accept each other's flaws, and most important forgive and ( Read more... )

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mindguru October 14 2003, 18:14:05 UTC
Yeah, I pretty much agree with the Sheep dude. Asking us to jump into the fray would result exactly in that. Requesting that we take sides will not make things any better, because let's face it, no one is completely absolved from fault, as Tina stated a while ago. It would only result in a transition from individuals arguing to groups doing exactly the same thing, or even worse, ganging up on someone. By no means will that help, nor does lashing out at the world or asking why people remain neutral.

When you meet a person, a mannerism that you may at first not mind may turn into something that seriously bugs you. As you get to know someone, your perspectives of and how you act with the person can go either way in terms of compatibility. Jessica tends to notice things and make remarks about them while Devin tends to be defensive about those remarks. In general and alone, those attributes may be okay, but together they apparently make a poor combination. Salvageability is certainly in question, but I'm pretty sure that a break for now would do a world better than constant potshots over the littlest things.

As for siding with and defending people in the past, guess what, we have, whether you remember it or not, because I remember specifically standing up for each of you, sometimes to your face, sometimes when talking to someone else. Please don't think that none of us ever have.

For now, just...try to stay calm as best as you can. Excessively venting to everyone and cursing the world are sort of like when I say something in Anime Club: people may hear me, but they'd place into doubt my credibility and be reluctant to agree with me. ^_~

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