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I did a lot of potting up (gardening stuff that's tedious and only fit for one person at a time to do) today, so I had a lot of time to think about last night. I don't know how to deal with the men at the dances who make me distinctly uncomfortable (man who stands at an angle which forces his arm into my boobs, and man who flirts in a way that really feels creepy, and various men who wear what appear to be boxer shorts and an undershirt to dance in instead of shorts/kilt/trousers and a shirt) and it makes me not want to go back to the dances. However, there are some people there that I've really gotten to enjoy being around and dancing with and so I am conflicted. I have the right to refuse dances with people who ask, but it always feels akward to do that.