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Ok, last post on this set of new posts(excepting my post below this cause I posted that post first).
First off: People tell you to be quite when you "bring up that it isn't going right", is because this is one of the few times I have seen you admit that your life isn't that bad. And when you do say it isn't that bad, you don't sound like you believe it. And who really is to decide when your life isn't going right? I mean last I knew the only control we had over our lives was the choices we made, so if it isn't right I'm not sure complaining to other people about it is going to make it better. And that advice isn't directed just at you, I think alot of people could learn from that.
Also Mouse, If you are pissed about being told to shut up here is something you can do. When they start talking to you about their problems tell them to shut up. And do that til they listen to you. Then they'll know how you feel about it. Or they will hate you and stop talking to you because of that. I suggest explaining why you have stopped listening to their problems first, so that they don't end up hating you. And if you decide that you just can't bring yourself to do that. Then don't complain when they tell you to shut up, cause you wouldn't be willing to do anything about it except complain some more. And if they weren't listening to you complain before I don't think they will hear that complaint either.
First off: People tell you to be quite when you "bring up that it isn't going right", is because this is one of the few times I have seen you admit that your life isn't that bad. And when you do say it isn't that bad, you don't sound like you believe it. And who really is to decide when your life isn't going right? I mean last I knew the only control we had over our lives was the choices we made, so if it isn't right I'm not sure complaining to other people about it is going to make it better. And that advice isn't directed just at you, I think alot of people could learn from that.
Also Mouse, If you are pissed about being told to shut up here is something you can do. When they start talking to you about their problems tell them to shut up. And do that til they listen to you. Then they'll know how you feel about it. Or they will hate you and stop talking to you because of that. I suggest explaining why you have stopped listening to their problems first, so that they don't end up hating you. And if you decide that you just can't bring yourself to do that. Then don't complain when they tell you to shut up, cause you wouldn't be willing to do anything about it except complain some more. And if they weren't listening to you complain before I don't think they will hear that complaint either.
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