is the process reversable?
a good friend of mine remarked once that even though she was really good friends with a lot of guys, there are always a couple that just really stand out, etc... and she said they stood out because maybe, just maybe, there was a chance that the relationship could turn from friendship into something so much more, that it was only a matter of time.
and sometimes i wonder if i'm capable of inspiring such feelings in someone. because as much as i want a certain so-and-so to realize that she love sme more than just at a friendship level, it never has. but i still wonder if it's possible...
common male dating opinion says that "mystery is better" and "there's no way to get out of or reverse the friendship status" but i wonder if that's all wrong. if you count all the great conversations, awesome humor, fun hangouts, even random special occasions that end up being some of the best things you've ever done together... after all of those things, i wonder if that could all just "add up" someday... that it would just *click* in their mind and in their heart and she'd realize that even though we've just been friends for so long and that there hasn't been any romantic feelings before, that maybe that relationship could change into something more? is it even possible? sometimes i'm really optimistic and i think that i just gotta be patient and persistent and it will happen. other times im really pessimistic and no matter how much effort i put into trying to get her to change her mind, she never will. i must be nuts, haha. any opinions? i would love to hear some.
"hours on the phone making pointless calls
i've got a desk full of paper that means nothin' at all
sometimes i catch myself, staring into space
counting down the hours 'til i get to see your face"
and sometimes i wonder if i'm capable of inspiring such feelings in someone. because as much as i want a certain so-and-so to realize that she love sme more than just at a friendship level, it never has. but i still wonder if it's possible...
common male dating opinion says that "mystery is better" and "there's no way to get out of or reverse the friendship status" but i wonder if that's all wrong. if you count all the great conversations, awesome humor, fun hangouts, even random special occasions that end up being some of the best things you've ever done together... after all of those things, i wonder if that could all just "add up" someday... that it would just *click* in their mind and in their heart and she'd realize that even though we've just been friends for so long and that there hasn't been any romantic feelings before, that maybe that relationship could change into something more? is it even possible? sometimes i'm really optimistic and i think that i just gotta be patient and persistent and it will happen. other times im really pessimistic and no matter how much effort i put into trying to get her to change her mind, she never will. i must be nuts, haha. any opinions? i would love to hear some.
"hours on the phone making pointless calls
i've got a desk full of paper that means nothin' at all
sometimes i catch myself, staring into space
counting down the hours 'til i get to see your face"