For the Record
So I've said this before. I think I even made a post about it a while back. But I think its worth repeating:
One of my biggest pet peeves is when I have to find out someone has issues with me through the grapevine or when they simply stop speaking to me. If you have a problem with me don't go around talking about it behind my back. Don't just walk away. Talk to me if it's something important enough to upset you so much. Otherwise you must just want to continue feeling the way you do, or never truly valued our friendship in the first place.
I have had friends who have dropped out of my life, never to be seen again. It's been years, and I still don't know why. Maybe they assume I know...but I dont. I can try to make guesses, but I'm not going to drive myself crazy over it...obviously they didn't.
One of my biggest pet peeves is when I have to find out someone has issues with me through the grapevine or when they simply stop speaking to me. If you have a problem with me don't go around talking about it behind my back. Don't just walk away. Talk to me if it's something important enough to upset you so much. Otherwise you must just want to continue feeling the way you do, or never truly valued our friendship in the first place.
I have had friends who have dropped out of my life, never to be seen again. It's been years, and I still don't know why. Maybe they assume I know...but I dont. I can try to make guesses, but I'm not going to drive myself crazy over it...obviously they didn't.