Nov 21, 2004 23:03
Why must a girlfriend deem it her place to try to control every facet of her boyfriends life? Especially when what she is trying to get you to stop doing, is something that she does all the time. These hypocritical actions are not only totally uncalled for but absolutely unredeemable in my eyes. I will give you this, you didn't have my full 110% attention tonight, but I never have yours, ever. Does that seem fair to me? No. Should I give you the same treatment back? Since you do it to me, I do have every right, however, I do not partake in these actions since I do not appreciate it when others do it to me.
Trying to generate a schedule for me to follow so that as much of my time can be 'our' time while almost seeming sweet is going far to into the realm of 'hey, your life is mine now.' I am neither ready for that nor supportive of such actions, even between a married couple. People need alone time, time to think, digest, solve their own personal problems. Our mind is what makes us unique individuals. Sometimes we really just need to attempt to resolve things on our own.
Amanda you mean so much to me, but as much as you state I need to change, so do you.