Stephanie.. unfortunately, that's only your opinion, yes, we are young, but Unlike some, I Embrace the concept of learning, there are literally Millions of things to learn about relationships, not all can be obtained in one life time especially only through Experiences.
And JUST BECAUSE you've learned something new does NOT diminish "Fun" from a relationship , in fact in Encourages Fun And Growth. Obviously you do not see it this way. So there is no reason to fight about it.
Personally I think there is more to learning then Experiencing something for yourself, for example, you don't Abuse drugs because you know before hand what effects they have. Just like in being in a relationship, if you don't Communicate with the one you love, there will most likely be detrimental effects, this is obvious in most humans.
Science IS science, just because you have an Understanding of how Relationships Work doesn't mean it's going to be Less Exciting... or "NO FUN", it means you have the TOOLS and Ability To ENHANCE your relationship , and yes, if you do not "know these tools" that is a lack of knowledge.
of course though, you won't believe me that with newfound understandings and "tools" you can actually Enhance a relationship, and in no way will it be "NO FUN"... I'm serious, that is simply not true...
Personally I DON'T worry about my future with Mona, right now I only care about our Present, Her Happiness, and My goal to do Everything I can for her, and one of those things IS learning to be my best for her, and it just so happens that She knows what She Wants, but the Books, T.V. and the internet all give me Accurate information on how to give her everything I can.
I bet that if I hadn't choose to learn and work for our relationship, Mona would probably have left me just as fast as she met me...
A relationship doesn't just "work out", it doesn't. no matter how much you want it to... for that to happen you actually need to "work" and you know something? To me, it gives me SATISFACTION that I'm WORKING and learning to be a better person For myself, and For Mona...
I'm not saying that, Mona will want to be with me forever, but you know what, that doesn't matter, the whole point is that I make her happy for the Duration... if we're constantly fighting, how could she be happy? she couldn't be!! So I learn about how to avoid that and Communicate... Unfortunately those are skills you MUST LEARN. you're not born with Common Sense... nor are you with the skills to be a mathematician... those you learn... And not always through Experience.
This just so happens to be absolute truth, the only difference is, you're obtaining the information (The Hard Way) and I'm Going the (Easy Path). We'll both meet at the same point, but I'll just have a smoother Ride.
We'll end up at the same point, (that is if you learn the millions of things about relationships through experience before me)...
I'm learning everything you are Plus I'm Experienceing everything you are (maybe differently but that‘s besides the point), only in my case I know more and thus I can Do More about the situation... this includes stopping and enhancing the situation.
But, if you like to take a Rough Journey that's up to you, not me, and even though I've attempted to show you an easier way to get to point B, you've refused to care, let alone consider that it's no different, it'll only take you a lot longer... so you have every right of free will to do that, and I have nothing wrong with that... so there is no use in fighting, I just wanted to Explain why I think this way... personally I like things that are "Easy" and " ... FUN"... hehe
So even though you may retaliate to this, I wouldn't... I'm simply giving you an explanation to why I choose this, now you've already done that for me, so don't worry.. this topic is no longer debatable, mainly because of opinion...
Anyways... Goodnight.. take care, and have a great day tomorrow!!!
And JUST BECAUSE you've learned something new does NOT diminish "Fun" from a relationship , in fact in Encourages Fun And Growth. Obviously you do not see it this way. So there is no reason to fight about it.
Personally I think there is more to learning then Experiencing something for yourself, for example, you don't Abuse drugs because you know before hand what effects they have. Just like in being in a relationship, if you don't Communicate with the one you love, there will most likely be detrimental effects, this is obvious in most humans.
Science IS science, just because you have an Understanding of how Relationships Work doesn't mean it's going to be Less Exciting... or "NO FUN", it means you have the TOOLS and Ability To ENHANCE your relationship , and yes, if you do not "know these tools" that is a lack of knowledge.
of course though, you won't believe me that with newfound understandings and "tools" you can actually Enhance a relationship, and in no way will it be "NO FUN"... I'm serious, that is simply not true...
Personally I DON'T worry about my future with Mona, right now I only care about our Present, Her Happiness, and My goal to do Everything I can for her, and one of those things IS learning to be my best for her, and it just so happens that She knows what She Wants, but the Books, T.V. and the internet all give me Accurate information on how to give her everything I can.
I bet that if I hadn't choose to learn and work for our relationship, Mona would probably have left me just as fast as she met me...
A relationship doesn't just "work out", it doesn't. no matter how much you want it to... for that to happen you actually need to "work" and you know something? To me, it gives me SATISFACTION that I'm WORKING and learning to be a better person For myself, and For Mona...
I'm not saying that, Mona will want to be with me forever, but you know what, that doesn't matter, the whole point is that I make her happy for the Duration... if we're constantly fighting, how could she be happy? she couldn't be!! So I learn about how to avoid that and Communicate... Unfortunately those are skills you MUST LEARN. you're not born with Common Sense... nor are you with the skills to be a mathematician... those you learn... And not always through Experience.
This just so happens to be absolute truth, the only difference is, you're obtaining the information (The Hard Way) and I'm Going the (Easy Path). We'll both meet at the same point, but I'll just have a smoother Ride.
We'll end up at the same point, (that is if you learn the millions of things about relationships through experience before me)...
I'm learning everything you are Plus I'm Experienceing everything you are (maybe differently but that‘s besides the point), only in my case I know more and thus I can Do More about the situation... this includes stopping and enhancing the situation.
But, if you like to take a Rough Journey that's up to you, not me, and even though I've attempted to show you an easier way to get to point B, you've refused to care, let alone consider that it's no different, it'll only take you a lot longer... so you have every right of free will to do that, and I have nothing wrong with that... so there is no use in fighting, I just wanted to Explain why I think this way... personally I like things that are "Easy" and " ... FUN"... hehe
So even though you may retaliate to this, I wouldn't... I'm simply giving you an explanation to why I choose this, now you've already done that for me, so don't worry.. this topic is no longer debatable, mainly because of opinion...
Anyways... Goodnight.. take care, and have a great day tomorrow!!!
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Take care too, have a good night, and see you in physics!
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