MDS woot!
So it's been a while..not been up to much since the last post, just went home for a couple of weeks and things, spent my last two days getting stoned, as you do, ah the fun.
So anyway, I get back on Saturday, then on Sunday it's MDS (and I end up staying at Rachel and Hussy's overnight afterwards, so I didn't spend long at home, lol)
I haven't really mentioned anything about BDSM on here that I've noticed, so here's the crash course before I talk about MDS - been to SWAMP (South West Alternative Market and Party - a BDSM market) twice, and it's so awesome - everybody's just lovely and wonderful and friendly and welcoming and just fabulous.
Not long after the first SWAMP I got with Will, who is my boyfriend and dom, Phil and Morgan introduced us because we were similar ages, so we love them, hee.
So basically, on Sunday it was MDS, which stands for Maison De Sade, it's a big ol' BDSM party thing run by Phil and Morgan.
It was a little bit nerve-wracking, since I'd never done public play before and the atmosphere was a little different to SWAMP (as it's primarily a play party sort of thing as opposed to a market with a party after)
I'd decided to go in lingerie (they have a rather strict dress code, up to a point, after that point anything goes, it's fun), unfortunately cameras aren't allowed so I don't have any pictures, but I was wearing my bra, corset, lacy knickers, suspenders, seamed stockings, elbow length gloves, heels and cat ears - all in black (though the ears had a pink lining) - at times I also had wrist and ankle cuffs on too.
Oh! And I was wearing my collar (I bought it at swamp, it's a purply colour with a pentacle, it's divine), with a lead (a pretty purple one we bought from robert dyas before catching the train to weston-super-mare), which was fun.
Anyway, to start at the beginning...
I miss the bus into town so have to get a taxi in, *sigh* but oh well, and then we take a stroll into town from temple meads and end up missing the train so have to get the later one, upon arriving in Weston-Super-Mare, Will gets a little lost and we take an *extremely* roundabout route to get to the place (see, Will wouldn't ask for directions partly because he's just a big bloke, and partly because it's held in a strip club).
So after a rather bumpy start, we arrive at MDS and I go get changed (well I wasn't going to arrive in my lingerie was I?)
At first it was cool to see everyone but I was a little nervous/bored - nervous about being in lingerie at first but that soon vanished since everyone was dressed in all different stuff, and there were people dressed in less than me, heh.
I was a little bored at first because we were just sort of sat around not really doing much, though it was nice to get used to the atmosphere and stuff I guess, and chat to a couple of people that I knew.
When we got there we chatted to Phil and Morgan too, I really like them, it's great, I've only met them once before but they (especially Phil) greeted me like an old friend and everything, they're such lovely people ^_^
They had a slave/sub auction, and Will wasn't going to put me in it but I said I'd like to (he was quite happy to, he just hadn't realised I wanted to)
so after I'd filled in the form and handed it in, we went to the dungeon to play, it was our very first public scene, but it was fun, got a rather pleasant flogging before dinner ^_^
A little ways after dinner the auction happened, all the money went to charity, which was nice, I went for £10 which I think was the highest (it was definitely higher than all the subs before me), highest for the subs anyway.
The fun thing is - Will's the one that bought me! Silly boy. (Though it was funny, the people bidding were basically Will and Rachel/Hussy/Kat - who just have to ask Will for a scene with me, heh)
So I got dragged into the dungeon for another pleasant flogging on a different bit of equipment (I got to try out four different bits in the end), and then Will got Jim, who is very cool (and was teaching him to crack whips earlier on), to scene with me (he said later that Jim was who he'd wanted to win me in the auction - he'd already said it'd be good for me to get to scene with somebody more experienced)
Jim was awesome, it was a bit painful at times but nothing too much and whenever he used a new thing (like a different flogger or paddle) he checked if it was ok, so thankfully I didn't get too many hits with the wooden paddle - that thing is evil, evil I tell you! (Plus we agreed upon the traffic light system, amber means slow down, red means stop)
After that rather pleasant scene I was totally buzzing, on such a high, it was like being drunk...it was like being drunk and on a roller coaster (adrenaline boost!)
Will was great, made me sit down (after checking that it wouldn't hurt to do so, lol) and have a glass of water, which meant after five minutes I'd calmed down and was ready to go again ^^
Then there was the dom auction, which was fun as we were bidding for Phil on behalf of Morgan and Bruce (so they got some time with him, they told us what to go up to)
I ended up with the winning bid of £50, and when Phil found out who had really won him he came over to call me a 'crafty wench' and thank me for helping them (Will, at this point, had gone because he had to catch an earlier train, he had to scarper rather quickly just after the auction finished)
After that, Hussy asked if I was up for more scening (I had been left in his and Rachel's capable hands) to which I replied 'Hell yea!'
So there I was, tied to a chair with my boobs out, I would have been self-conscious but I was blindfolded which made it much easier to relax and not think about it - though after long I couldn't have thought about it if I tried.
The phrase 'exquisite torture' rather springs to mind, they were using a pinwheel and a flogger, and I think some other stuff too but they were the only two I was coherent enough to notice.
Eventually I had to call my safeword on that one, not because they went too far but because I was completely overloaded, my teeth were buzzing (that's all I can think of to describe it), which is usually a prelude to hyperventilating so I had to stop it.
They were great, got me undone nice and quick and everything, said well done for stopping it (it's a big thing, it's very important to stop a scene that gets too much) and I got another glass of water.
oh my god it took me so long to come down from that, I was buzzing, completely, I felt really drunk, it was insane - though, in a weird way, it kind of put me at ease, because I *didn't* hyperventilate, and I didn't start crying (as I can tend to do), which reassures me into thinking it was a) a good kind of overload, and b) stopped in time, which is nice to know.
So, anyway, not long after that I got changed and me and Hussy headed back to their house and we stayed up chatting for a bit before going to bed, and then I met up with Rachel and Kat today to give Rachel her keys and for lunch, so that was fun.
...I think that's everything
All in all it was a freakin' awesome weekend, I wish I could do it all again! (And sooner than October, which is when the next MDS is held)
P.s. Not feeling particularly devious, just thought it was a rather fitting icon..hehe
So anyway, I get back on Saturday, then on Sunday it's MDS (and I end up staying at Rachel and Hussy's overnight afterwards, so I didn't spend long at home, lol)
I haven't really mentioned anything about BDSM on here that I've noticed, so here's the crash course before I talk about MDS - been to SWAMP (South West Alternative Market and Party - a BDSM market) twice, and it's so awesome - everybody's just lovely and wonderful and friendly and welcoming and just fabulous.
Not long after the first SWAMP I got with Will, who is my boyfriend and dom, Phil and Morgan introduced us because we were similar ages, so we love them, hee.
So basically, on Sunday it was MDS, which stands for Maison De Sade, it's a big ol' BDSM party thing run by Phil and Morgan.
It was a little bit nerve-wracking, since I'd never done public play before and the atmosphere was a little different to SWAMP (as it's primarily a play party sort of thing as opposed to a market with a party after)
I'd decided to go in lingerie (they have a rather strict dress code, up to a point, after that point anything goes, it's fun), unfortunately cameras aren't allowed so I don't have any pictures, but I was wearing my bra, corset, lacy knickers, suspenders, seamed stockings, elbow length gloves, heels and cat ears - all in black (though the ears had a pink lining) - at times I also had wrist and ankle cuffs on too.
Oh! And I was wearing my collar (I bought it at swamp, it's a purply colour with a pentacle, it's divine), with a lead (a pretty purple one we bought from robert dyas before catching the train to weston-super-mare), which was fun.
Anyway, to start at the beginning...
I miss the bus into town so have to get a taxi in, *sigh* but oh well, and then we take a stroll into town from temple meads and end up missing the train so have to get the later one, upon arriving in Weston-Super-Mare, Will gets a little lost and we take an *extremely* roundabout route to get to the place (see, Will wouldn't ask for directions partly because he's just a big bloke, and partly because it's held in a strip club).
So after a rather bumpy start, we arrive at MDS and I go get changed (well I wasn't going to arrive in my lingerie was I?)
At first it was cool to see everyone but I was a little nervous/bored - nervous about being in lingerie at first but that soon vanished since everyone was dressed in all different stuff, and there were people dressed in less than me, heh.
I was a little bored at first because we were just sort of sat around not really doing much, though it was nice to get used to the atmosphere and stuff I guess, and chat to a couple of people that I knew.
When we got there we chatted to Phil and Morgan too, I really like them, it's great, I've only met them once before but they (especially Phil) greeted me like an old friend and everything, they're such lovely people ^_^
They had a slave/sub auction, and Will wasn't going to put me in it but I said I'd like to (he was quite happy to, he just hadn't realised I wanted to)
so after I'd filled in the form and handed it in, we went to the dungeon to play, it was our very first public scene, but it was fun, got a rather pleasant flogging before dinner ^_^
A little ways after dinner the auction happened, all the money went to charity, which was nice, I went for £10 which I think was the highest (it was definitely higher than all the subs before me), highest for the subs anyway.
The fun thing is - Will's the one that bought me! Silly boy. (Though it was funny, the people bidding were basically Will and Rachel/Hussy/Kat - who just have to ask Will for a scene with me, heh)
So I got dragged into the dungeon for another pleasant flogging on a different bit of equipment (I got to try out four different bits in the end), and then Will got Jim, who is very cool (and was teaching him to crack whips earlier on), to scene with me (he said later that Jim was who he'd wanted to win me in the auction - he'd already said it'd be good for me to get to scene with somebody more experienced)
Jim was awesome, it was a bit painful at times but nothing too much and whenever he used a new thing (like a different flogger or paddle) he checked if it was ok, so thankfully I didn't get too many hits with the wooden paddle - that thing is evil, evil I tell you! (Plus we agreed upon the traffic light system, amber means slow down, red means stop)
After that rather pleasant scene I was totally buzzing, on such a high, it was like being drunk...it was like being drunk and on a roller coaster (adrenaline boost!)
Will was great, made me sit down (after checking that it wouldn't hurt to do so, lol) and have a glass of water, which meant after five minutes I'd calmed down and was ready to go again ^^
Then there was the dom auction, which was fun as we were bidding for Phil on behalf of Morgan and Bruce (so they got some time with him, they told us what to go up to)
I ended up with the winning bid of £50, and when Phil found out who had really won him he came over to call me a 'crafty wench' and thank me for helping them (Will, at this point, had gone because he had to catch an earlier train, he had to scarper rather quickly just after the auction finished)
After that, Hussy asked if I was up for more scening (I had been left in his and Rachel's capable hands) to which I replied 'Hell yea!'
So there I was, tied to a chair with my boobs out, I would have been self-conscious but I was blindfolded which made it much easier to relax and not think about it - though after long I couldn't have thought about it if I tried.
The phrase 'exquisite torture' rather springs to mind, they were using a pinwheel and a flogger, and I think some other stuff too but they were the only two I was coherent enough to notice.
Eventually I had to call my safeword on that one, not because they went too far but because I was completely overloaded, my teeth were buzzing (that's all I can think of to describe it), which is usually a prelude to hyperventilating so I had to stop it.
They were great, got me undone nice and quick and everything, said well done for stopping it (it's a big thing, it's very important to stop a scene that gets too much) and I got another glass of water.
oh my god it took me so long to come down from that, I was buzzing, completely, I felt really drunk, it was insane - though, in a weird way, it kind of put me at ease, because I *didn't* hyperventilate, and I didn't start crying (as I can tend to do), which reassures me into thinking it was a) a good kind of overload, and b) stopped in time, which is nice to know.
So, anyway, not long after that I got changed and me and Hussy headed back to their house and we stayed up chatting for a bit before going to bed, and then I met up with Rachel and Kat today to give Rachel her keys and for lunch, so that was fun.
...I think that's everything
All in all it was a freakin' awesome weekend, I wish I could do it all again! (And sooner than October, which is when the next MDS is held)
P.s. Not feeling particularly devious, just thought it was a rather fitting icon..hehe