1.) I don't see any problem with you being at my graduation/graduation dinner; in fact I was hoping that you would be there. 2.) There is no reason that we need to schedule our visits to Columbus based on when the other is going to be there; that's obnoxious. 3.) The reason that I did not want to talk to you at Banana Joe's was because I had just found out from Justin that you decided to take it upon yourself to tell my mother about my engagement before I ever got a chance to. That hurt my feelings more than anything that you could ever do to me. That was my moment and you stole it from me. How many times does a girl get to inform her mother about being engaged? (not too many, I hope) Therefore, at the moment I really didn't want to have anything to do with you. After talking to my mom and trying to not think about it I have realized that it is not that big of a deal in the scheme of things. But it still hurts that my sister would do something like that. I would never do that to you or Jamie. I don't know why you thought it was a good idea, but I forgive you for it. 4.) I apologize for anything that I said that might be hurtful. It was out of concern that I said what I did. But I guess that you were right when you said that I didn't know you that well. It's your life, you do what you want with it.
It's not the fact that I don't want to reconcile with you, it's the fact that I'm afraid that if I confide something to you again it's going to go straight to my mother. I have been meaning to write you a letter and I was going to leave it with your rent check but I have been extremely busy lately. I barely have time to breathe.
Anyway, I am going to be in Columbus next weekend (I think). If you feel the need to reschedule your visit then be my guest but I do not see a reason for it.
I hope that we can work things out because I don't like there to be tension in the family especially when people are coming in from out of town to be here for my graduation and the whole family should be together.
1.) I don't see any problem with you being at my graduation/graduation dinner; in fact I was hoping that you would be there.
2.) There is no reason that we need to schedule our visits to Columbus based on when the other is going to be there; that's obnoxious.
3.) The reason that I did not want to talk to you at Banana Joe's was because I had just found out from Justin that you decided to take it upon yourself to tell my mother about my engagement before I ever got a chance to. That hurt my feelings more than anything that you could ever do to me. That was my moment and you stole it from me. How many times does a girl get to inform her mother about being engaged? (not too many, I hope) Therefore, at the moment I really didn't want to have anything to do with you. After talking to my mom and trying to not think about it I have realized that it is not that big of a deal in the scheme of things. But it still hurts that my sister would do something like that. I would never do that to you or Jamie. I don't know why you thought it was a good idea, but I forgive you for it.
4.) I apologize for anything that I said that might be hurtful. It was out of concern that I said what I did. But I guess that you were right when you said that I didn't know you that well. It's your life, you do what you want with it.
It's not the fact that I don't want to reconcile with you, it's the fact that I'm afraid that if I confide something to you again it's going to go straight to my mother. I have been meaning to write you a letter and I was going to leave it with your rent check but I have been extremely busy lately. I barely have time to breathe.
Anyway, I am going to be in Columbus next weekend (I think). If you feel the need to reschedule your visit then be my guest but I do not see a reason for it.
I hope that we can work things out because I don't like there to be tension in the family especially when people are coming in from out of town to be here for my graduation and the whole family should be together.
<3Lindsay
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